Omg and you are still married, why not let her move in, because you condone it by staying with him, and you can all get along.<br />
How long has this been going on, a long time now. Come on.
What can i say, denial, denial, denial someone needs a wake-up call.
So, pretty much since you've both been married...
He's using both of you.
Not for 4 years, no one uses anyone for 4 years.
No man will keep any woman around for 4 years if he is only using her, and you 1 year more do you think he really thinks more of you, if he could he would properly marry her too.
Yes he dos, he wont tell you that of course, come on wake up seriously, no man has a woman for 4 years without it having meaning get it. If he did not care about her he would commit to you and not see her. He has no respect for you that i know for a fact.
Damn! What kind of man would do that?<br />
How rude.<br />
He should never lie to his mistress. That's what he has a wife for.<br />
He better straighten up or he'll find himself with just one of you.
LOL. That was complete sarcasm. It was either that or ask you what the heck you allow him to have a mistress and still be with him, but I'm sure you have your reasons.
You make bunny cry.
LOL She makes everyone cry.
Leave this lame....
No, he was letting her know he was thinking about her. Wow, thinking that he was letting her know that "we're happy" is pretty delusional...
Not something I would tolerate .... But I haven't walked your shoes... However 10 years from now when you as old like me, your looks are fading and you finally wake up? Will you be happy you waisted even more years with him? Have more self respect, you are worth it!
If he were telling her you're happy, he would come out and say it, and get rid of her. Don't stick around.