I think that people become gay because I have not heard or read about a baby or toddler kissing or sexually touching another of the same sex. <br />
If we can find evidence that one or more babies are homosexual, then we can confirm that people are born gay.
Most are born that way. Their glandular systems work that way. But there are always those trying the gay thing.
I wouldn't say anybody is "born" with a sexual preference. But I don't mind how or why anyone wants to say they're gay. We all are who we choose to be! To each his own!
I think it could be either way. Some people just know without a doubt, and from a very young age too. Others spend time playing both fields and then decide after heavy consideration.<br />
isn't it the same with sexual appearance? i'm not talking about "what i want to be" but "what i identify as". for some it's just obvious- "i have a penis, i must be a guy". but some could go either way (like hermaphrodites/intersex), and really it all boils down to preference after experimentation.
It's all in there heads...
They were born that way.