Possibly, or it could be that they just don't have anyone to listen to them at all... positive or negative. Also, we tend to focus on the negative and completely forget about all of the positive things we hear. For instance, I could have 100 people tell me 100 nice things, but it would be that one rude thing that one rude person said that would stand out. Sometimes I think it's just that society has a problem with "negativity" because the negative forces us to look at reality. Bad things happen ALL the time to EVERYONE. We don't want to be reminded that it can happen to us too.
The exception to that are soldiers and techies. Both do it to blow off steam. In the case of technical people, they are actually problem-solving out loud.<br /><br />The rest are just jerks :D
I feel yes self focused,people complain lot, but depends how there life is,miseries and continuous pain ,depriving,in life at the end let one to fell in negativity,so its some kind of habit to think negativity always because sufferings crate a dark aura.<br />
We never expect such a person get rid of that negativity,<br />
Our mind creates, a hell thoughts around us.
Thanks lot,really I do not know why I expressed my such a feeling,we knows we are not perfect,I my self feeling ashamed ,heartily apologies.
should i delete it?
did U ever consider they may be depresses and they need to be listened too???
thank you! it's funny how I find in a q&a about negativity, I find only ONE positive answer among all of the rudeness, name-calling, and snap judgments I have just read. irony :)
There are a few of those right here on EP.
Very negative view point, all of us have problems in life, some are here purely to vent about things we wouldn't dream of expressing to those around us, does that make us bad in some way? Or does it just make us human?