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GoogieGoo GoogieGoo 22-25, F 20 Answers Nov 7, 2012 in Struggles

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It helps you understand why you are breaking up and it can help you not regret leaving a bad relationship.

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Read "the five love languages" by Gary Chapman



It did wonders for my relationships

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Both parties have to go into it with an open mind and yes it can work if they want it to.

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and there lies the rub... both go in looking for validation.

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Perhaps but if they both go in - there is a chance.

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No

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It can if you both really want it and just need guidance to find the common ground again.

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Hoping that couples counseling saves the relationship is like hoping that talking to a doctor makes you healthy.

Sure you get advice and learn to understand the existing problems, but you have to make it work. They just guide the way, you have to go it. And if the relationship is beyond saving, there is nothing counseling can do. Just like a doctor can not save every life.

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well people get it all wrong and think marriage councelling is just when marraiges are going down the drain, the marriage councellor is not MERLIN, but like other areas of councelling he) she will give it a try to help save a marriage ,purely advise, it is now left to he couple to see if they are willing to give it a try,where it comes to matters of the heart no man can perform any miracles

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did nothing to help my ex and I

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So-called "Couples Counseling" or formerly "Marriage Counseling" actually amounts to the female hiring a professional emotional manipulator to help her beat up on the man. It almost never works to save the relationship, even if she succeeds in turning the man into a groveling wuss for a while. If she's actually willing to work on the relationship instead of digging in her heels and wanting to "win" more than to love, then she can do that herself without the professional fighter on her side.

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Nope, and the statistics back that up, I believe it is like 85% of people that go into counseling ultimately get divorced.

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I am not sure.

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I spent $3000 dragging my ex too that. It might work for some one.. but it got me poorer

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It can if both people want it to work and you forgive the past.

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lol provided they are willing to go for counselling!

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Yes it does it either helps the twobof you get back together. Or it will help you move on healthy with a new one.

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