Do You Think That Too Much Attention From Your Partner Is Worse Than Too Little?

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drix	Resolved Question Do you think that too much attention from your partner is worse than too little? Posted 5 months ago

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I'd choose being smothered over being ignored any day.

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psyko	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 3:51AM it depends on what kind of attention. scaring the heck out of me at 1am while i'm EP-ing and then nagging me to go to bed is not good. but lots of laughs and cuddles is very good. too much of anything is a bad thing, tho' Rated: +3Vote for this!
OceanicDebris	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 9:23AM Depends on the person, and what type of attention. I mean some ppl are cuddlers and some aren't am i right or am i right? Rated: +2Vote for this!
phedokitty	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 2:36AM yes Rated: +2Vote for this!
Fourandahalfdays	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 2:36AM Hell yes, too much can be smothering. Not good. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Kindal	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 1:57AM There needs to be a happy medium. Too much can be smothering and i'm the type of girl who needs my space from time to time. I like to cuddle on the couch at night wtih my partner while watching TV and hug and pecks on the cheek throughout the day and holding hands but i'm not the clingy type. Also I don't like to be ingored or rejected either when I make the move for affection. If I give a hug I hope it would be returned. Rated: +2Vote for this!
person32	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 9:23AM no. unless you're talking serial killer type attention. it's still bad having too much attention, but having too little is worse. Rated: +2Vote for this!
mzdivine	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 9:23AM NO....NO WAY!! Rated: +2Vote for this!
bearM	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 3:42AM When your partner is pshyco and is the over protective type, then yes. But i like getting attention from my significant other, as many as i can get..otherwise i seem to feel a bit neglected Rated: +1Vote for this!
upset444	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 2:52AM I choose smothering over ignorance any day. Rated: +1Vote for this!
denverguy	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 12:52AM I myself love any attention from my partner. Rated: +1Vote for this!
tearaway	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 6:11AM It's better to err on the side of too much attention, I think. I like space, but if I wanted lots of it I wouldn't be in a relationship. I'm not in a relationship. Rated: +1Vote for this!
HumanOddity	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 1:27PM "too much" means more than you want, so obviously yes. We really need examples from you, if you want an accurate opinion about whether or not what he's doing is causing problems, though. Rated: +1Vote for this!
BodyModFan4Life	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 2:53PM My boyfriend and I have been working on this. I'm not used to being touched all the time and when I'm on the phone or trying to work on something important I don't like to be touched or even just patted, because it ruins my concentration. We've had to discuss boundaries and hes gotten MUCH better and realizing the time and place for it. Rated: +1Vote for this!
laurynangel	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 5:00PM depends on if you are talking about ted bundy or not i guess, but if not, then attention is good! Rated: +1Vote for this!
shf84	Posted Jun 19th, 2009 at 9:55PM Too little is definitly worse at least this way you know they are into you. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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