Funny you're asking. I actually talked to the guy I bullied and he bullied me and I found out he's a great guy so know we are like best friends. I did forgive him, in my heart, truly
Yes, I already have....I released every bad thing that was done to me and trying live my life as a better person!
The act against me was really bad, but I realized that the person behind the awful accusations was also in pain, so right then and there, I decided to forgive them and offered my hand to help them. They declined.....I have never spoken or heard from then again. If they decided to reach out, I wouldn't turn them away!
I will write a story on forgiveness one of these days...thanks! Have a wonderful evening! :-)
just never forget.
I always Forgive,People are Far from Perfect,But I Never Forget,I won't Put myself in a Position to be Screwed again. :)
I try to not even think about it. I want to forget the whole ordeal and not speak with them anymore. But I forgive them as long as we don't cross paths anymore.
yes i do that. it's the resentful ones that never let go that i feel for.
if you took as many butt whippins that i have you'd now how i did it. it takes time man, you got think it out. i've changed a lot over the years and if i have done that then so can they. i learn from others thatpave a path and then i forgive even the most evil ones. it's not my problem if they don't let go.
Yes I did, and the end result was true happiness.
I took each person that hurt me (and I had many many of those) and in my mind I remembered each thing they did to me and I forgave what they did. I let the anger and hatred turn into pain of being betrayed. When the pain slowly healed so did the anger and hatred. I had forgiving them. It was will worth the effort. I also had to make the choice to live and not let what they did affect me. I chose to turn loose.
It's not something I do it's just who I am...Holding a grudge takes up more energy than I want to give
Never. Mostly because he hasn't even asked for forgiveness.
I moved across the country to get away from him and the whole mess. So far so good.
Thanks for the insight. Twas well said (:
I don't know that I have any enemies ... that would be on their end .. not mine.
No .. I've had pretty great people in my life.
But I played a role in that too .. I don't allow people to treat me badly to begin with.
We can't control how others treat us .. only how we allow it to affect us. Even with rape .. a horrible crime -- there are ways to heal from that .. and for our own well-being, we need to do that. We have to move on or they have taken our life from us.
We can agree to disagree here ...
No.... I will ignore or put to the very back of my mind, but not forgive..
i try everyday then i see her and she does something to upset me again.
He was killed, so I forgave him.
No, it was not me. He became a gangster and police killed him in some raid. Seen his pic. in news. Was not suprised. He bullyed me @ school.
I think I did the forgetting part first, because I don't even remember who my worst enemy is.
a lot of therapy