Yep, that's what the shotgun is for.
No, but it reminds me of when I had to go into the city (I HATE the city) and someone was parallel parking in front of me and backed into my car. I rolled down my window and said, "Hey, mister! You just hit my car."
He put his head out the window and said, "I know, I know! Don't yell at me! And then drove away."
Yes, my fingers meld into the steering wheel.