I used to quite a lot, and although I am with someone now who is amazing and I don't think could ever make me feel lonely, I overcame the loneliness on my own. I wish I could tell you how to do it, because I understand what it feels like and would like to show other people who feel this way how to stop feeling these feelings, but unfortunately it is just one of these things that you have to do on your own.<br />
Also, you are not unlike-able. There are always people out there who will like you. You are just feeling unlike-able because you have been either feeling down lately, or you have been hanging around the wrong people.<br />
One thing I will recommend is hobbies, I know everyone says to find something that you enjoy doing or are good at and stick with it, but it is great advice. I kept my lonely mind preoccupied with my hobbies and have now turned one of those hobbies into a career. I can't begin to tell you what it has done for my self-esteem. If someone now finds me unlike-able I think in the back of my mind "I don't really give a **** what you think of me, I have my dream job. What the hell do you do for a living?" I know career isn't everything, but doing what I love for a living just brings this incredible self confidence that attracts other great things into my life.<br />
You will get out of this funk soon. Life has it's ups and downs and everytime you are experiencing one of those "down" times, just remember that life is a rollercoaster and for every "down" moment you experience, there is a "high" moment soon to follow.
i prefer to stand and hug the bed post
Nope, I'm awesome. <br />
If you're unlikable it's your own fault - BUT - you have the power to change that! <br />
Develop a positive outlook on life and people will like you more.<br />
Pro tip: In stead of answering with your usual "*heavy sigh* I'm ok :(", when people ask how you are, put on a big smile and say "I'm great! :D" You'll be amazed at how people will respond to that one thing and like you more.
Yes, too often.
Many times over the years.
You just have to expose your heart more and eventually someone catches on. The pain is worth the gain.
Sorry, yes I have done it but only when my marriage broke down. You're young things will get better, hang on in there.
Maybe when I was 16-20. I developed a thick skin since then.