hello, pinkspell <br />
guilt is my constant companion. i was brought to believe whatever went wrong was my fault. and it is still there... lurking, ready to pounce.... pretends to be a friend but has a knife ready to give me another little stab.... not enough to kill me... that would be too easy... so just enough to make me feel bad.... really bad.<br />
thank you for asking, with respect from robbie<br />
it is a very intense habit that we acquire - or is forced upon us when we are young. i have tried to break the habit but it is too strong, so now i just learn to live with it. by not fighting it, it seems to get weaker. i hope you find a way that works for you.
Thank you for sharing, I feel guilty all the time and people especially close friends and family have a way of making me feel that everything that goes wrong is my fault, I keep saying I'm sorry to the point I say it without thinking .it is a sad and lonely feeling to feel guilty all the time.
yes . . .
I live in constant guilt, I believe it is natural being human.
I'm a culprit
Guilty about what, Honey? Anything specific, or just a general feeling?
If you've harmed no one, then there's no need to feel the least bit guilty. Think of all the good things you've done for people, and seek to do more..doing a kindness for someone, no matter how small, will help you feel better. *Hug*
Keep loving... you will sort it out. You're young and smart.. it's natural to question yourself. It will be ok; you'll see. Do no harm, and sleep the slumber of the blameless. Don't worry so much, Baby. Occupy your mind with other things...like a boyfriend?? ;-)
Only about certain things. But I dont let it bother me.
Me to over everything it sucks...Thats why I smoke pot its better then taking xanax
I don't FEEL guilty, I am guilty ;)
No I stopped feeling guilty when I decided never to stop thinking about the consequences of my action or inactions and I really haven't regretted anything I've ever done