Start going to the YMCA and get on a regular exercise program, you will feel so much better. I am 53 and run 15-20 miles a week, do Zumba classes 2-3 times a week, swim once a week, and kickboxing twice a week. I eat a lot of fruit , vegetables and milk. I feel so much better when I exercise, it is good for you entire body and you will sleep so much better. Have you ever thought of going to Victoria's Secret and buying yourself some nice lacy underthings to wear JUST FOR YOU? I am sure you deserve it.
we live in a world that worships youth... when we loose that appeal, then we feel bad about ourselves. im 54 and getting older , yet, i have discovered that with age comes something else, wisdom....while we loose our youthful looks, we gain the look of wisdom, and honestly, its a good thing to acquire.
your actually very beautiful for your age...Dont know why you think your ugly..You have gorgeous eyes and great features...I hope when im 60 I age well like you.
Try being 57 with a 22 yr old wife.. she thinks I am great..her friends call me awsome...the younger boys call me old and ugly...yet they dont cross me...I am thinking they are just jealous...good for me ..you have to remember that no matter what "game" they want to play...we wrote the rules years ago..
I would love to talk with you one on one. I truly believe how we feel about ourselves is important to every aspect of our lives. It affects us profoundly when we don't feel "attractive." My advice? Change it up. Get a make-over. Learn to look hot at any age...it can be done! If you want advice, send me a private email. I'm 63. I might wish I were younger BUT I love they way I look and feel. xoxoD
I am so sick and tired of being sick and tired - ever since I retired I feel useless and I don't know what to do with myself to bring any spark back
No true woman in this world would ever suit the word ugly... just beautiful. <br />
Regardless of age and appearance.<br />
Suck that up :)
I way told once by a 90 year old "You are as old as the last person you managed to go to bed with" now he was sure she was 50 be he couldn't remember
seldom. i doll myself up every day...hair, makeup...the works. down to shoes! it's amazing how much it does for the ole self esteem ;)
Girl just feel lucky that no matter what you look like, some man is going to find you attractive... Now for me i'm doomed... I'm gay and no man wants me or looks at me.. Gay males are different in their choices and no one wants an aged old troll .. I have been cursed on all levels .. and i have been ready to go for a very long while.
hugs to you, jaymetal..
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I'm 63, too. A male. I saw a recent picture of myself and I look old and ugly. I was never handsome, but was always considered young for my age. Just a few years ago, I looked pretty good. Now... "chicken neck", face sagging. If I try to lose weight, I look worst, the fat goes from my face first and I have sunken cheeks. If you look at AARP magazine, they only feature people who don't look their age. Doesn't matter what you've accomplished, you'll only be featured if you don't look your age. When I was a kid, I never paid attention to how old people looked. I only cared if they were nice. Now, in this world of visual media, appearance is the only thing that matters. I shouldn't pay attention to it, but I do. All I can say is that I empathize, I DO feel old and ugly. I wish, as in previous times, I was respected for my experience rather than appearance.
I read all the coments hog wash. I am 75 and I am old yes I hurt my my knees hurt my bac is bad and yes I am OLD. I hear 2o and 30 40 but get tomy age and yes I am okd. Thats who I wanted to hear ftom old people.
I am 63 also and feel old and fat and ugly --- feeling like I should jusst give up.............................................................. Sick of me
this is your time now. treat yourself to the spa, walks, enjoy the scenery, watch a 'happy' fun movie, enjoy a breakfast out, visit the museums, or botanical gardens with a book. A long candle lit bath, meditate, enjoy......