Does anyone feel that family abuse is affecting your love life today? I have seen how many young men and women who have
7 Answers to "Does anyone feel that family abuse is affecting your love life today? I have seen how many young men and women who have"
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Yes it can but it doesn't mean that you have to blame your childhood every time you hurt somebody, we're all responsible for our own actions.
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Absolutely right.
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Agreed. I don't know why life seems to be so unfair. Those born into good loving families, tend to marry partners who are good for them, while those who have already suffered a great deal in their family of origin, tend to go on to marry partners who cause them additional pain.
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Sometimes people who who had a lack of love growing up look for a home and attention in the wrong partners. A good way to find someone to have a special bond with is to be close to a person who is respectful, fair, trustworthy, and accepts you no matter what.
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I understand the mechanism behind it; I just haven't come to terms with the unfairness of it being so.
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Absolutely!!! I am living proof. I had allot of child abuse. I still get into the wrong relationships. I am haunted by my past even with medication, therapy, groups, reading books and buying CD's( self help).
It's a struggle and hardship.
There are days I want to give up.
But what has saved me is the love of my animals. And volunteering at animal shelters and helping people in need.
I'm not sure if I will ever love/ relationship again. But life is worth getting up and trying everyday.Like (1)
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Yes, Its as if childhood victims end up with an invisible tattoo across they foreheads.
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not overly comfortable going into detail about me and with my ex she had her own experiences,we were a toxic combination in the bedroom,kink is one thing but we were just hurting each other by the end of our relationship,she will never know how much I love her but loving her was accepting that what we had was more about sharing something as dirty as we have been made feel
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I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you guys heal and find your right matches. It's like pushing a puzzle piece that does not fit, a good relationship eases its way together.
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Yes. You have attachment and abandonment issues and the net result is, you have never been in a relationship and you're 23, almost 24.
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Here's some advice that could help. Find a partner who has values and beliefs similar to yours, first start out as a friendship and see if it grows into something special. Don't go after good looks or fakeness because those fade.
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I don't think it has to do with them; I think it has to do with me and the screwy way my brain processes things on its own, even though I am cognizant of these things... ?
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Posted by yasra Dec 23rd, 2012 at 3:52AM
yes of course family abuse not only affect love life but also disturb mantle power
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