:c only you will know? You can't love him so maybe psychologically you're telling yourself that if you love again, you'll go back to that time where you were depressed and cut yourself. So that's why you can't love him. That makes sense. And because it's psychological, you don't even realise that's what's going on but it is.
Maybe yeah. Don't reject what?
Have you ever tried to stop? I know it's hard but I went through the same thing but with a lot more burning than cutting. If you try to make yourself feel happier and better without him, it will really help you. You need to accept what happened and the fact that is is okay for those things to happen and you to move on. None of it was your fault, don't hurt yourself over it x
That's natural. I'm glad you stopped, very very glad. You need to accept what happened and realise that it's okay. It may take some time. Heck, it took me Almost a year, the depressed little sad girl that I was. You're lucky in the sense that you have a friend who is there for you and a boyfriend who loves you. Don't push him away, try to love him back. It will take time but im sure he'll understand. It's okay of it takes time, as long as things are improving, that's what matters. :)
Don't hold back. You need to realise, he does love you. He won't hurt you like the first ******* did. It will take time but you need to open up x
Why do they keep putting asterisks on my words?!! Gosh they're not even swear words
You're gonna have to ask him to do that. I'm really sorry. I can promise you though, that if anyone ever hurts you, I'll be here to help you. I know how you feel and it's probably the crappest feeling in the world x
I know x just ask him if he does love you and will stay with you. Personally, I wouldn't recommend getting into another relationship until you're fully healed from the previous one but since you already are in one, maybe it can help you. The way to tell is by talking to him about it. Good luck x
That's true. See this is why I don't recommend getting into a relationship. I guess it's gonna have to ride on how much you trust him. He'll understand if you tell him you need space though right?
So maybe tell him that and then wait till you've fully healed? I mean it will probably help the most.
Awww then maybe you can ask him to help you get over the other guy? He sounds nice enough, he should agree right?
If you're sure, then that's great! Maybe even though you're over him, you're still afraid of getting hurt and reacting in that way again?
In any case, I'm sure you'll be fine if he's ready to support you through all of this :D
Awww o.o well you trust him right? I'm sure he won't hurt you. Just talk to him about it and you'll get through it x
No problem! If you need anything else, just message me, I'm here. Good luck x
No problem! :)