Does eveyone keep an ace in the hole? Someone on the side just in case your relationship doesnt work!?

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EricS says woman do that more than men!? In my experience many woman have even left marriages, with no income and having chidren ( with no one to fall back on ),...but most men will NEVER leave the marriage unless another woman is waiting in the wings. I think men are very insecure that way!

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live4god33	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 4:43PM If you do this then you never fully commit to the relationship that you are currently in, and might be the reason why some relationships do not work. Rated: +4Vote for this!
tearaway	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 3:03PM No, and I'm offended by the golf terminology. Tiger Woods Rated: +3Vote for this!
COOLPENGUIN	Posted Apr 29th, 2009 at 12:30AM No, but I have had someone do that to me and as his nose broke against my fist, I realized that people who treat others like this deserve so much worse than a broken nose. His hand healed quite well, but he still squeaks when he sneezes and coughs. Rated: +3Vote for this!
EricS	Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 2:03PM Women do that more than men do, in my experience. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Praxis	Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 2:03PM Nah. its easy enough to get another one when the current one starts malfunctioning. Rated: +2Vote for this!
jerrica	Posted Apr 29th, 2009 at 12:29AM i have to respectfully disagree with erics. it's been my experience that men do it more than women. i don't think i've ever been involved with a man who didn't have many aces in the hole. Rated: +2Vote for this!
lastleafoffall	Posted Apr 29th, 2009 at 4:55AM No, and I personally find this behavior ridiculous. If you go into a relationship with a "spare" or a "backup in case it doesn't work".....well, it seems to me you didn't expect it to work anyway, so why bother? Rated: +2Vote for this!
SaratogaGirl	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 1:02PM Not me. Rated: +1Vote for this!
PTMAN	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 1:04PM of course Rated: +1Vote for this!
vtom	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 1:10PM No Rated: +1Vote for this!
StudentofUnifying Life	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 3:04PM No, I can only focus on one man at a time. I wouldn't want to be someone's "ace in the hole," either. You either want to be with me or you don't. I have no patience for tourists. :-) Rated: +1Vote for this!
ohmercyme	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 3:08PM no because this is how my last relationship went in the toilet. he had a 19 yr old back up plan at work while i waited at home. he was "working late" aka banging her in his car after close.... i'm not heartless. i love completely or not at all. Rated: +1Vote for this!
bcj	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 3:16PM no lady hh absolutely no! the idea itself is repulsive. and i am a man. i left a bad marriage with my car, clothes, guitar and fishing tackle. then i started a new life and only started dating a year after. b Rated: +1Vote for this!
gillybabes98	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 4:05PM been there done that and believe me the grass in never greener, it ruins your relationship when you have an affair, as you start getting flase feelings towards the person you are having the affair with, you are better trying to work out any problems you may have in your relationship as with affairs they always get messy as one person starts getting feelings and wants more than the other person can give! Rated: +1Vote for this!
Moran1988	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 6:13PM NO, a-h*le. Some of of us are honest and deal with people one at the time so we don't hurt somebody else's feelings. Rated: +1Vote for this!
freeflowing	Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 7:14PM one women in particular i know does this but i can't say every women does this. I'll have to investigate more Rated: +1Vote for this!
chloroformdreams	Posted May 5th, 2009 at 7:19PM oh dear no thats really not fair to anyone! Why even be in a relationship if you're going to have someone on the back burner...just in case your current relationship fails. Thats pathetic and skanky! Rated: +1Vote for this!

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