No vows necessary, it's a done deal at birth. Their life is in your hands
Have any children?
it beigns the minute the ring and vows are made , then you it is your beast of burdern in all aspect of life,
No. Or at least it shouldn't. If your kid is a bad person - not just bratty, but actually psycho - then you shouldn't have to subject yourself to dealing with that.
That's fine, but it's not like you can help or change your kid if it turns out to be a serial killer. Sociopaths are born, not made.
Most parents do the best job they know how to do