Does god choose the one you fall in love with?

Absolutely. Our life is planned when we are born, like when you die, you never know when your computer chip will be pulled.

nope, he doesnt... things like love fall under free will and God cant control ur will..if he could there prob wont be anyneed for human existence...free will is wat we are...

I believe He does, if you believe in Him. SOmetimes we dont end up with that person because we dont follow His will, but all in all you should end up with the one God has chosen for you.

Never mind my previous answer, I was trying to say what Waiwera did, and it came out all different.

I don't know if it is hate or God, but I do strongly believe that everything and everyone come into your life for a reason - so yes. This is pre-destined.

No, he doesn't.

I don't think so. I do believe in God but I don't think he has that much control. If anything it's something biological. I read an article on it actually. There is science behind it.

No, the Lord gave you free will but at the same tome he asked you to do his will so if you are doing his will youwill choose someone you are equally yoked with. That means FOR YOU TO CHOSE SOMEONE THAT BELIEVES THE WAY YOU DO. .Not about daily life but spiritually. If you believe in him he wants you to choose someone who also belives in him. If you believe in him and you choose someone who doesnt it wont work and you will find yourself in a bad situation. Once you have married you have promised Gpd till death do you part and it will be to late because he says he hates divorce. Its better to remain single than to marry and find yourself in that type of situation especially after you have had children.

That is such an interesting question. I never thought about it, but knowing that I just found someone whom I really love, I would have to say, YES, God must have chosen him for me. I see God in the happiness that I experience with him every day.

i dont think he makes the choice for you but that he rather puts that person in your life.... i met my husband in a strange way... via email at first never thought i would meet someone from online plus at the time i was seriously man hating ... in a drunken joke i called him up so some of my girlfriends could hear his voice( this was after several months of email) then in a joke i said that he and i should meet at the place me and 8 of my girls where going that night.... i thought he would say no because he lived a few hours away and thats the only reason why i asked and felt bold... to my surprise he was visiting a guy friend maybe 30 mins from where i was going to be that night... when i learn this i hung up on him and totally was just gonna ignore his calls if he called back.. well i had one of my chicas hold my cell and while i was in the restroom they called him and gave him directions... later that night this sexy red head came up to me and started talking to me... i didnt notice who it was because it was kinda dark... and i was super attracted to him.. fianlly he was like " you dont know who i am do you... its is kinda weird to meet people from the net" i was super surprised and happy that my girls had given him directions... he visited that night for like 30mins and then left but before he did we made plans to go out for dinner on mothers day( next day) and now almost 2 years later here we are married for 6 months and happy as clams...
he used to say that he prayed to god while in iraq that if he could just get him home safe and bring the girl that was ment for him into his life a good woman who would love him and support him then that was all that he needed...
and before i met him i use to pray that i would finally meet a nice guy who was willing to love and respect me... and i truely believe that maybe sometimes both he and i were praying under the same stars and night skys for the same thing... love and support and i dont think it would have happend without god...

Maybe. This sounds like something that PUSHKY could answer.

No; it's free will.

I know I don't, so it must be God. Who else could it be?

If he does I must have really pissed him of when I was younger or in another life.

If there is a creator or god ideal, then it does not make decisions about what happens in life in real time. All those decisions were made at the point of creation when the Big Bang defined the laws of physics.

Ideas to the contrary have proven to be extremely dangerous.

If he did, he played a cruel joke on me! :-) I guess he's got a sense of humor!!

everything is life works within a spectrum of what is already written. indeed you will fall lin love when it is time and with the person u r to b in love with :)
all written in the stars since the day u were born!