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Does he like me or am I misreading signals?

I have been friends with this guy for awhile now... and I'm starting to fall for him. He has a horrible cheater girlfriend (he tells me about their problems), but he told me he is going to leave her. All normal things for people who are friends right? Well, I have this gut feeling that he likes me too, hes constantly flirting with me, playfighting, pulling on my ponytail, throwing pieces of paper at me etc..and we make eye contact constantly, the kind that lingers and he smiles real big. He gave me a hug out of the blue the other day, I didnt want to let go but I knew he had a girlfriend... Our hands touched when I handed him something the other day, and his hand lingered on mine and we made intense eye contact again... I think hes not admitting anything because he doesnt know how I feel, he even said " I want to take it slow in my next relationship. If a woman is interested in me I want her to be the one to contact me.." Is that a hint? Im confused. If he wants me y doesnt he say so?
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hunn honestly who knows with men.. sounds like he does like you but hey it may just be how he is... I have no idea what to tell you, i do agree with the above posts gaurd your heart and make sure he's gonna be what you need.. I know it can be very confusing our heart takes over us and sometimes we just cant stop it, but be careful... best wishes to you hunn... I'tll all work out :)
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Posted Sep 12th, 2009 at 10:27PM
I see red flags going up. He has a girlfriend and he is making these advances towards you. What makes you think that he won't do the same thing to you once he tires of you? Doesn't it turn you off knowing that he is totally disrespecting his girlfriend? I would give him space and not flirt with him until he does the manly thing and that is to break up with his current relationship. Once he has done that and he wants to pursue things, I would take it really really really slow because you don't want to be his rebound girl. And when I mean slow, I mean NO SEX until at least 3 months. If he sticks around after that 3 month mark, then you will know that he is into you.
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Posted Sep 12th, 2009 at 9:03PM
he likes you but don't be the rebound!!
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Posted Sep 12th, 2009 at 9:09PM
I agree i think he likes you but make sure your not the rebound girl and that when its over with them its really over .....watch your heart.....could it be better to stay his friend.....
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Posted Sep 12th, 2009 at 9:28PM
haven't we gone through this already? you should be at his house now.
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Posted Sep 12th, 2009 at 9:45PM
Just ask him already.
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Posted Sep 12th, 2009 at 9:46PM
Don't make yourself too available, he will get bored pretty quick.
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