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Does he like me? Or is it just lust?

My teaching asst & I had a argument at the start of semester. For 1 month I was sure he despised me. Anyways I went to his office hours before the midterm 4 help. He did help a lot & I had a great exam. Immediately after handing in my exam, I saw him standing in the lec hall. I was really happy because I did so well. So I approached him to thank him. I was standing right in front of him all smiles, but he wouldn't even make eye contact with at me. So I left w/o saying anything. It made me sad b/c I thought he still hated me. But from that day every time he sees me at lec (twice a week) he would stare at me across the room. Our lec room is 700 ppl big, but from the moment I enter the room, I can feel his eyes on me. It doesn't stop till the prof starts lecturing. Then immediately after lec he is staring at me again till I leave the hall. He's been doing this for the last 4 weeks. He doesn't look away when our eyes meet. I'm confused. Does he like me now?
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A man that looks you in the eyes and not at your boobs is interested in you.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 8:13PM
Stalkerish you should approach him and ask what his problem! Or you will always wonder. It better to know and move on.
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Posted Nov 7th, 2009 at 10:33PM
Not much help but it could be either. He could just be f-ing with you or he could really like you. If you want to know, talk to him. That will be your only way to get a clear answer.

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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 7:29PM
If he is staring at you, I would say he wants you. So, I would say lust.
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 7:45PM
It pretty much depends on his facial expression too. If he looks at you with longing, I would say it was lust. If it is just a glance, I wouldn't worry too much about it
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 8:00PM
Well the way I understand it from what you wrote ,I would have to say yes he is interested.Why stare at someone like that if you're not, that would be madness.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2009 at 2:39AM
bella said it right. he wants but its too early to tell as whether its lust or if he wants you as more, but the fact that he stares and has been for the last 4 weeks is sorta scary. so be careful. that could be a big stoplight warning you about him. he could just be really shy so talk to him again and follow your instincts, womens intuition is usually right.
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