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im terribly confused.. my bestfriend told me about her new friend which she met 8 months ago. They have the same workplace and everytime the day is over they walk together hand in hand (holding hands) as if something in them. My bestfriend was also confused and keep on asking me why did her friend kiss her on the lips i think its twice or thrice (smack thing), hug her, give her so much attention or mad if she doesnt like to go to work.. her friend has a boyfriend but my bestfriend is single now after the stupid break up from his stupid boyfriend.. Just dont understand why her friend was so attached to her? why her friend kiss her? :-(

Well it sounds to me that ur best friend's co-worker has feelings for her. The co-worker is prob exploring her sexuality-perhaps she is bi. Even though ur friend is confused and telling u bout her confusion, she doesn't seem to mind the attention she is getting from her co-worker. Perhaps ur besttfriend is starting to feel confused bout her own sexuality and is seeking solace through u. The word INSECURE is written all over this situation. I think ur friend is hoping that u can put her insecurities to rest. Ask ur friend how she feels bout her co-worker. Ask ur friend if she has talked to her co-worker bout the situation. Ur friend needs to talk to her co-worker and get answers from her. B/c until she does that, her confusion will con't to grow. It's nice that she feels she can confide with u, but ultimately u aren't the one doing all these romantic things for her, nor are u this particular co-worker.