No! ...to a certain extent: yes! But those who are able to not care, find love and happiness!
If you are going to keep talking about how ugly you look I am going to say you sound retarted. you are not at all ugly and I would say you look better then the avarage 18 year old. juging from your face you are prob not fat and that alone will put you ahead of most americans.........:)
what I will say is that in your vidio you sound very unhappy. that in itself is not good for socializing.
Google "Gerard Depardieu". Check out his images. There are a great many people who seem to find him ugly. What's more, there has been no little uncomplimentary chatter about his endowment. Regardless, check out his past romantic entanglements. The dude's done all right for himself. Cut yourself some slack. What's vastly more important, cut women some, as well. By that, I mean that you should be prepared to candidly discuss yourself with those girls who both (a) reject your overtures, and (b) seem otherwise well disposed to you. Face the issue bravely, with your chin up, without rancor or second-guessing on your part. You're not looking for all of the things which might disqualify you, for her, in that regard, but only for something which might have worked in your favor. Also, first off, hit the advice sections of both men's and women's mags, for tips on grooming and dress. Then, adapt them to your budget and the self-image that you want to project.
well, don't worry, they will realize their mistake sometimes or later in life .. next time anyone says that to you tell them peacefully ," some years from now you are gonna regret this." and just walk off ..
and.. next time date someone smart or experienced .. and yea, be a more confident.. everyone finds someone in their lives sooner or later.
sorry for making this long :)
Hi. I watched your video. Honestly, there's nothing wrong with your looks - what's wrong is that your self esteem is low. The people who are WORTH dating, don't emphasize looks. They see who you are and they are attracted to that. When you are in your late teens and early twenties, people can be very shallow. When you get a little older, I've noticed that the good people grow out of that shallow way of thinking. You will be fine. You will get good people to date. The most important thing is to try to discover who you are and people will be very attracted to you if you like yourself.
No, you don't look retarded. People are cruel. They'll say whatever they can to make you feel bad - because some people get their jollies that way. sickos. Especially if they sense that it is something you are sensitive about, they'll attack. Just FYI: Psychologists say that if someone feels bad about some aspect of their looks, it is one of the most difficult things for the person to change and feel better about. It's some kind of body dysmorphia thing and it's a formidable enemy. I wish I had better news about that. I don't think you look funny or retarded but I know that probably means nothing to you because you think you do. Uggggg. Our minds can be so cruel.
Is that why you took the picture at the link down? I half expected that to be the case, before I entered it in my search engine. Like iwantapizza said, "(p)eople are cruel." Or, more accurately, you invited those who are to crap all over your face. Unless you're into being humiliated, knock it off! (Hey, if you are into that, then more power to you. Try Reddit. They've even got committed anti-social women over there, mythical beasts though they are often claimed to be.)
I should hope not. I need someone with great personality along with athleticism and musical ability and smarts but that's because if he didn't have some of the same qualities I have there'd be less in common to work with. Idk.
And really, sounds like she was a bit shallow. You're probably better off without her, and I agree with Durion-- work on your self-confidence and what else you bring to the table besides looks.
Dude, wake up. Why did you say "a pretty cute girl"? Aren't you one among them? Did you ever try going on a date with a not-so-good looking girl? Try doing that and see how happy they are!
don't want to see your face and make judgments. better this way! Thanks anyway
See how happy they are!??!
No... its all about your energy not your looks. "Chick dig confidence." <--- thats a quote from south park the movie. But its true. :) I need more confidence as well in my ability for girls to like me. I guess we aren't alone in that. Grats on going for it and asking though.
I don't understand this. You don't seem particularly ugly to me. In fact, you look normal to me. The main thing I notice is the look in your eyes, and the forlorn look of total despair you have. I thought I was ugly once too in my life, and I don't know why. I have a horrible time with girls. I don't know why I thought I was ugly. I think you fine bro, seriously. I watched the video. But I guarantee that there will be a girl that will be attracted to you. Attraction is a funny thing. Its more then looks. It happens. You never know. But that look in your eyes does tend to show others that you don't think anything of yourself. I believe that you can change that. I stand by my story. I believe confidence will absolutely make a difference with a face like yours. Your not deformed, you just hate your own face. I can say a bit more. You can't change your own face, but you can change you. One is an easy way out, and one is hard. One you can do nothing about, the other you can. But the harder path in my opinion, which is to address the way you feel about yourself, and the issues inside yourself, in my opinion is more rewarding and you will grow the most. And once you do that, your obsession about your face will fade. Because your asking questions and posting on here... maybe you wish your story wasnt true. Maybe you wish it IS true. I don't know. But I'm being honest with you. Everybody wants friends, and wants to be liked. I think that's possible for you. We all have problems, and your not alone my friend. I wish you the best of luck. :)
Women supposedly like confidence and power. You seem like you have some confidence issues. But I can't comment on your looks.
Because I don't have much criteria in what makes men physically attractive.