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I can't seem to stop being mean to a guy I have a huge crush on. I sometimes think I have a slight personality disorder, but then I think maybe I'm just being woman and overreacting. I don't want to hurt his feelings I just want him to think I'm sarcastically funny. He sometimes makes a joke off my mean comments so maybe he doesn't mind them. I have no idea. Please help.
liz7755 liz7755 16-17 10 Answers Jan 9 in Dating & Relationships

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I see nothing playful about being mean. Nothing funny about sarcasm.

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Yeah. Thank you all for the help. Not to sound conceited but I am a very nice girl. I do get very nervous around him so I joke, but I now understand I should switch it an be kind. I always apologize and tell him I was kidding or put a smiley face or reply and say something nice to make him feel better. I do probably need to just tell him I like him so he knows its just some problem I have.

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You can always ask the guy out

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I actually love it, but it has to be very obviously playful. If I'm holding something and I drop it, and she goes "You suck!" Not that mean, but still annoying. If she were to say something like "You look like a big fuzzy monkey butt" or something, that is obviously funny, and even hotter for how gentle it is.

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You might want to ask yourself why you're being mean rather than if it's ok. It's actually fairly common. Fear of rejection and/or social anxiety are keeping you from saying what you want to say, so you're mean instead. It takes a lot of courage to tell someone you like them; at least at first. Once you get over that initial fear it won't be a big deal.

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we hate it... its annoying..

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No

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Yes, I am not funny when I'm sarcastic at all, it comes off as mean, and people don't like that.<br />
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Once I told my best guy friend that he was a magnificent bastard and the look I got, whola, he almost walked out of the store on me, my husband doesn't like it either, neither did my other best friend. Or anybody, I always get that horrid look from them. I was just joking, nope I've stopped joking around like that. <br />
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I win people over way quicker by being kind.

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Nope. Been doing it all my life and haven't had issues. Lol

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