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Does it count as cheating to think about leaving?

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    FlauntTheImperfections - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by FlauntTheImperfections Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:19PM

    No. But if you think about leaving them, there is something wrong with the relationship. You need to be honest with them and talk to them. If you can't resolve your issue, leave BEFORE you get involved with anyone else.

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  1. elderwitch47 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by elderwitch47 Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:26PM

    we have talked and it is him not me...he was chatting up a girl on line and even though she is in another country I still have feelings of betrayal. Even though I knew of the friendship I didn't know of the attraction...I feel like a fool and like I had blinders on.

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  2. FlauntTheImperfections - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by FlauntTheImperfections Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:29PM

    If it is just a friendship, what are you worried about? Do both of you believe the other should not have friends of the opposite sex?

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  1. blueyedtxan36 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by blueyedtxan36 Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:26PM

    I have had those feelings also, and I do not leave, just a break from the norm for awhile.

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  2. elderwitch47 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by elderwitch47 Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:30PM

    yeah that is what got my attention...he wasn't acting like himself. But we are trying to find our way back.

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  3. blueyedtxan36 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by blueyedtxan36 Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:37PM

    good luck and I hope everything works out

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  4. bijouxbroussard - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by bijouxbroussard Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:38PM

    No, not at all. Until you act, you're still faithful.

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  5. elderwitch47 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by elderwitch47 Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:52PM

    logically that is how I feel but emotionally not sure.

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  6. zorbas - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by zorbas Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:22PM

    It is my opinion that if your are thinking about this you are already at least half way committed to the actual undertaking.

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  7. elderwitch47 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by elderwitch47 Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:32PM

    I would agree if they were in the same country...thankfully they are not.

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  8. TonyCE - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by TonyCE Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:18PM

    Not if you didn't do anything first

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  9. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by cpgnatly Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:16PM

    No, that is just deceptive.

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