No. But if you think about leaving them, there is something wrong with the relationship. You need to be honest with them and talk to them. If you can't resolve your issue, leave BEFORE you get involved with anyone else.
If it is just a friendship, what are you worried about? Do both of you believe the other should not have friends of the opposite sex?
Both? How is this looping him? I'm not being confrontational, I just want to understand the situation. I've made great female friends here on EP. My wife knows I use this site. She does not care who I talk to here because she knows it is an escape for me. I don't violate her trust.
That is complicated. But if he was unaware it was going on, how does he know the other personality wants to meet this girl? I don't envy you. I'm not sure how to handle that. I have no experience with split personality disorders.
That is happening probably because the other alter is very fragmented.
The alter did it when he came out and it trickeled through the system until he found out, I'm sure.
I have had those feelings also, and I do not leave, just a break from the norm for awhile.
good luck and I hope everything works out
No, not at all. Until you act, you're still faithful.
It is my opinion that if your are thinking about this you are already at least half way committed to the actual undertaking.
Not if you didn't do anything first
No, that is just deceptive.