Does it make me any less of a girl that I genuinely prefer career success & these kinds of things over marriage & love?
16 Answers to "Does it make me any less of a girl that I genuinely prefer career success & these kinds of things over marriage & love?"
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No, it doesn't. Define yourself and your own path to happiness and to hell with anyone who thinks they have a right to judge you or stand in your way.
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NOT AT ALL ! And anyone that says different is living in the dark ages.
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How come many people don't even believe me if I say that! and that's the reason why I added "genuinely" to the question!!!
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People are going with the odds that a young attractive intelligent lady will be swept off her feet by a handsome young man and then POOF there goes the belly.
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First, you're too old to be a "girl". Second, it makes you no less of a woman.
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LOL really, I am?!!! why, what is the age for girls? O.o
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18 is pushing it, after that you should at least be starting to turn into an adult
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No....it makes you more of a woman.
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It's normal but let me tell you something. I know people who have chose this path in life and later they regretted it because they don't have those precious memories to look back on and they feel loss for that. All they have are their achievements and nothing else. It's sad. Maybe you can try to balance it all out so later you won't look back with regret.
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Not at all. As long as you know what it is you want and what is important to you then go for it.
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Definitely not. You're a woman if you're a woman, there's no amount of lifestyle changes that can truly change that. If you want to focus on your career and be successful then do it. There are plenty of women that would rather spend their time succeeding and being happy than settling down and falling in love.
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Screw the girl/guy paradigm. It makes you AWESOME. That's all that matters. And when you're ready to get into the whole "girly" phase, however you wanna look at it, then you will. But there's nothing wrong with being successful, no matter what the mamby-pamby crybaby "have-nots" will try to make you think. Be a "Have."
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Or do you think you're SUPPOSED to be the eye-candy dangling on some rich as'shole's arm? A patriarchal society made you ask this question, not you.
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Probably makes you a little smarter
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i also feel very different and left out because of this... I was always more career focused than chasing after boys.
“Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore.”Like (1)
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That doesn't make you "less of a girl," if that's your preference.
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Thats exactly what i want at the moment..no marriage and kids for next 10 yrs,just me and my career..though i can manage a few boyfriends..
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becarful not to put yourself in a category career and success and go in what seems an instant
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If that is what your heart desires follow it. Some people have to succeed in those things in order to help others. .. not everybody is destined for marriage anyways :D
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No, but we should make babies soon. lol j/k
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by MmmBabi Oct 19th, 2012 at 12:55PM
No and as you get older and more stable in your career and reach your success you MAY find you want to add love, possibly marriage to the mix and if you don't then that is fine too.
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