it should make you feel better knowing that someone cares about you
i usually pretend like i don't like it.. and inside sometimes i do and sometimes i don't.
It's nice to know someone at least cares enough to make the gesture. Make/Take of it what you will.
The concern is always nice at least you know someone cares.
Well, I try to remember that they are just trying to help.
Unless they are the pieces of **** that just say "Aww, it'll get better". **** those people.
So offering to help is unwanted, and awkwardly trying to find something to say in the knowledge that you can't help is worse? What do you want, silence and a meaningful nod?
I want people to stop telling others that "it'll get better". Because sometimes, it doesn't. If 'silence and a meaningful nod' is all your little brain can come up with when consoling a friend, then sure.
If there's nothing they can do, the important thing is that they're listening in the first place. Doesn't really matter what they say.
it makes me feel so much happier when someone offers help like they can make it right because they take away the pain and they let me know they care and are there for me.