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Does love really decrease its intensity with time?

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    ihatemyselfandicantstop - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by ihatemyselfandicantstop Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:46AM

    No. Love can only get stronger. If not, then i guess it wasn't love

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18 Answers to "Does love really decrease its intensity with time?"

  1. life73 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by life73 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:49AM

    i think it does - it becomes that old tshirt or fav pj pants that have holes but you cant throw em away cos they are so unbelievably comfy-

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  2. bgirl1116 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by bgirl1116 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:00AM

    I think it changes. I think that how individuals perceive that change could be seen as a decrease in some areas. When love is new there are so many intense emotions associated with the newness of the relationship, as you get to know the person you love them but that nervous energy disappears and is replaced with a bond. As time goes by people tend to take each other for granted, but that could be circumstantial and not directly related to the love they have for their partner. Appreciate your love and recognize the changes and growth in your relationship.

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  3. Gene86 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Gene86 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:59AM

    If you let it. :( I just read a book...and it could actually pertain to this because it kinda reminded me of my relationship for a while. A man worried about commitment asked his married friend if marriage gets stale, and boring. (This could be used the other way around too lets not be sexist) I love my right arm, I need it, but I take for granted every day that it's there. I COULD live without it. But. who would want to. Your wife is your right arm. Some men... just forget there right arm, when it's cut off they miss it. It only pertains to a true REAL relationship. But... (That was the best way I've ever heard it said.) My husband forgot about his arm for a short time. He almost lost it.

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  4. mumado - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by mumado Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:55AM

    It changes it, your love doesn't decrease it changes direction to some thing that, stable and solid that withstands many osbstacles in life.

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  5. jason1944 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by jason1944 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:54AM

    love is inversely proportionate to time darling. so l/t=c where c is constant baby. but this mathematical explanation. in simple language u may say as time increases the love decreases darling.

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  6. BloviatingBuffoon - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by BloviatingBuffoon Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:56AM

    Are u sure with that equation?

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  7. BloviatingBuffoon - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by BloviatingBuffoon Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:57AM

    I mean with the constant thing...looks odd but well.

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  8. expo67 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by expo67 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:50AM

    Do you mean love, or is love a code word for "sex"? If you mean love, if it's really love, it has the potential to deepen and provide a deeper sense of support, trust and sharing. Love exists when a partner doesn't run away at the first sign of trouble, or stays even though a person is being difficult. If a partner can't do that (and there are limits to what one should have to put with), it's no longer love.

    If you mean sex, one might not want to feck like bunnies every ten minutes anymore, but it could mean that sex is explored in new and potentially as exciting ways.

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  9. ghosts0hunter - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by ghosts0hunter Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:49AM

    sometimes yes

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  10. bookerdana - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by bookerdana Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:48AM

    Its nature SHOULD depen,become more meaningful;an organic progression that could leave you more content,satisfied.

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  11. EnYM - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by EnYM Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:48AM

    Not in my opinion. While my relationships have never lasted more than a couple years . . my first true love from high school, my love for her continues to grow albeit a different kind of love since we broke up years ago.

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  12. worshipingu - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by worshipingu Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:48AM

    sadly, since chivalry has died a while back, the answer is it happens with a lot of people. We don't mean for it to happen either

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  13. EyeOnPrize - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by EyeOnPrize Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:47AM

    no, its character changes.

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  14. TrackyDaks - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by TrackyDaks Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:47AM

    No, it ebbs and flows.

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  15. linklock - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by linklock Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:46AM

    Love with strings does.

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  16. AnnSylvie - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by AnnSylvie Mar 3rd, 2013 at 5:46AM

    lol. I think A.Einstein has a part of the solution ... lol

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  17. lovewwe - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by lovewwe Mar 9th, 2013 at 12:14AM

    the answer is yes. but love changes over time. that burning passion that you feel at first quiets down...but it still smolders.

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  18. SanFranDan - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by SanFranDan Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:33AM

    Yes and No. Perhaps the best answer is that it could. When I first read your question I asked myself if you were really talking about sex or passion.
    In any case the answer i the pretty much the same. Love needs to be worked at. Sexual passion also needs to be worked at. Your feelings for another person, your passions etc. will change over time. That is a natural part of life. That doesn't mean that it will decrease, it might, but it could also increase or take another form.

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  19. Soul1958 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Soul1958 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 6:09AM

    If love isn't base on reality, it will dwindle into a numbness. <><

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