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Does playing hard to get actually work?

My opinion it doesn't - lose interest, fed up waiting around for a reply. Just wanting some thoughts!

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    FallenAngelWOOT - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by FallenAngelWOOT Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:17AM

    I never play games but there do seem to be some men who think my lack of interest is actually me playing hard to get and that can be annoying trying to explain that actually no I am not interested! They don't give up, they're stubborn buggers :)

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18 Answers to "Does playing hard to get actually work?"

  1. ShiroTheArticWolf - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by ShiroTheArticWolf Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:28AM

    I dont play hard to get. I am hard to get.

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  2. hlpflwthat - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by hlpflwthat Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:19AM

    Depends on what interests you.

    Playing is for games.

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  3. zombiecat - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by zombiecat Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:19AM

    Only if you actually get to play hard...

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  4. infpisme - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by infpisme Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:18AM

    It's not even a real game. Guys think we play "hard to get" when the truth is we just don't want 'em!

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  5. theduckman - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by theduckman Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:18AM

    it depends on what you are using for bait

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  6. MinxyDistroyer - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by MinxyDistroyer Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:18AM

    yes...but not if you do it for years like i did -_- the one guy i really really really liked i just played hard to get for three years with him until he just moved countries :( silly me...oh well lol

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  7. angelicsmiles - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by angelicsmiles Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:17AM

    People get tired eventually if one is playing hard for the sake of playing hard. It is good to be cautious but that is a whole different thing.

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  8. businessmanjr - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by businessmanjr Mar 2nd, 2013 at 2:23PM

    I don't use to try hard, but it just happened to me. A girl played hard to get for 8 months or so. The thing is that I never knew whether she was really interested or not (she was actually the one who chased me at the beggining, so I fell into the game), I got tired and moved on.

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  9. luvless1 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by luvless1 Mar 2nd, 2013 at 7:25AM

    depend's if you want him jacking off in a corner or making love to you. now it might for the guy's play hard to get. it show control and women may like that.

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  10. Aikenoo - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Aikenoo Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:43AM

    I don't know about others but I hate stubborn play hard to get people. They are lame.

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  11. Explodey - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Explodey Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:27AM

    You know what happens when both sexes play hard to get? Nobody gets any. They both become bitter and self absorbed with delusions that no *insert sex here* is good enough for them and end up alone. In short it does work... if you like microwaving bagels or humping large vibrating mounts akin to mechanical bulls with extra attachments (or whatever it is people are getting into now).

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  12. skinnysomehow - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by skinnysomehow Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:26AM

    well, play not very hard to get but not cheap either.

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  13. BlueXian - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by BlueXian Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:25AM

    It's attractive if you're hard to get for "other" people. I think a lot of people are like me and judge a relationship based on how well I communicate with the person, open, honest and understanding would be best. Making the guy feel bad can actually work, it works for girls too, but it's really negative.

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  14. MisterMister83 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by MisterMister83 Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:22AM

    does my head in if they do that with me then i just leave them to it... to me its like your desperate for them...

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  15. Coldwarrior - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Coldwarrior Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:21AM

    its a great way to miss some really great men. Some of us just dont play that game. If I like a woman I will tell her then ask her out, if she starts the chase me hard then harder game , I move on. Life is too short for games.

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  16. Olafsen - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Olafsen Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:20AM

    Does it f***!

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  17. spooky8 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by spooky8 Mar 2nd, 2013 at 6:20AM

    life is too short to play those games...and that is too much work

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