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    rusted - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by rusted Mar 25th, 2010 at 12:55AM

    Yes but doesn't know much about it, and really doesn't care.

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18 Answers to "Does your partner know your here? If no why haven't you told them?"

  1. justsunni - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by justsunni May 24th, 2010 at 9:45AM

    NO! and quite honestly, he could care less. as long as there is something to eat and i still fetch on command....
    can we say apathy?

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  2. Lucidblue - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Lucidblue May 18th, 2010 at 6:42AM

    No he doesn't know. I share things here that are just for me, it's my safe place. I don't share it with anyone in my life.

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  3. zuzieq611 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by zuzieq611 May 24th, 2010 at 9:45AM

    Yes, after some thought I let him read my story, and I let him read the responses. I think it made a huge impact. Hearing your wife say 'Hey if this continues, it will seriously threaten our marriage' should be enough, but somehow reading 10 responses that say 'Hey your marriage is in serious trouble' from strangers seemed to really hit him. I don't think he ever thought that denying me sex was wrong. Go figure.

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  4. needinghislove - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by needinghislove Apr 30th, 2010 at 10:56PM

    Nope.... He wouldn't care if he did. This is my getaway vaca I've been needing, lol. It'll be our lil secret ;-)

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  5. CountryBarbie - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by CountryBarbie Mar 23rd, 2010 at 9:16AM

    Nope! Would NOT be able to be as brutally honest if he did.......
    Some things are better left UNSAID.

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  6. DayHiker - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by DayHiker Mar 23rd, 2010 at 12:35AM

    Nope! But probably wouldn't care anyway.

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  7. kwanyin - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by kwanyin Oct 12th, 2011 at 5:46PM

    My sexless marriage is ending. After 10 years of apathy and 10 more of unhappiness, I am being served with divorce papers. A re-ignited relationship with a male friend was the catalyst of my husband's decision. I am elated to be set free- I am elated to have found a soul mate. Do not give up friends- joy will find you when you least expect it.

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  8. Opal10 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Opal10 Oct 5th, 2010 at 1:42PM

    Yes, but doesn't care much about it.

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  9. NeedSomething - 41-45 years old

    Posted by NeedSomething Sep 9th, 2010 at 7:28PM

    I just found this sight yesterday and need to keep a place to myself where I can vent if needed. No intention of mentioning the site to my husband especially since I have no need to know every site he visits online.

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  10. sandnsurf - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by sandnsurf Jul 3rd, 2010 at 11:39AM

    Sometimes words that are spoken/ written can't be taken back. My partner knows who I am here. He is not always happy with what I say, but he loves me and respects me. The friends I have made here have been supportive and valuable. And I couldn't ask for funnier stuff! Its not all serious beating of the breast all the time. Lots of experiences are just that....experiences. to be shared and savored. Relived or planned. I bless the day I stumbled in here and celebrate every day that I stay!

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  11. janelorench - 26-30 years old

    Posted by janelorench Jun 29th, 2010 at 5:21PM

    Yes i have. honesty is the best policy!

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  12. handoveryourheart - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by handoveryourheart May 30th, 2010 at 12:08AM

    Nope. This is a place where I can ask questions of people who have been through similar footsteps.

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  13. foolishgeek - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by foolishgeek Mar 24th, 2010 at 12:10PM

    My wife has a jealous streak, and usu.follows my history. I delete a couple of sites.Besides, I can't trust too many males and females, due to emotional immaturety, so I get better answers here. Besides, I need privacy and "things"to myself...

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  14. Exaspera - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Exaspera Mar 23rd, 2010 at 12:15AM

    Yes, my Sweetie knows. Sometimes I read him the questions and answers that make us both laugh.

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  15. Stevem7 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by Stevem7 Mar 21st, 2010 at 12:16PM

    I think all the crumbs from WILMAAA's donuts gave it away.

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  16. realoce - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by realoce Mar 21st, 2010 at 9:00AM

    Yes...mine knows, i told him that I was active here. I don't think he likes it that much, but it is a matter of respect between us.

    I asked him to check the page, so he could see this was not a dating site (even though SOME people have not realized that.....)he did.. Does he knows how I am, I do not know....honestly I am not hiding anything I am the same on line and off line, so .....

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  17. golightly - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by golightly Mar 21st, 2010 at 8:41AM

    Yes he does. Hard to hide it in a 900 sq ft house!

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