Depends on the situation, I consider being a pretty good on judging a situation when it comes to family.
And will address them that even try to lay a guiilt trip on me.
I call it front stabbing.
I'm a Christian and say what I feel inside.
Next time this happens to you think love.
Will you just being a additive to their problem or relieving the hounddog's from haunting them.
Or maybe they might be a little spoiled and there needs have stretched to far.
Do those a favour now and then and teach them to tighten there belts.
In my world it's called reality, saying no and walking away and not listening to a guilt trip might do them a world of good.
But be there for them when you have to.
The wisedom is in your heart go with it and no worry when it comes to family.
hahaha...my family members know they're baking up the wrong tree when try to squeeze money out of me...
Yes, I don't even answer the phone when my brother calls...all he ever wants is more money. He already owes me several thousand dollars.