Some people hold grudges, others hate you cause they spread rumours about you. There were time's when I would almost cry in public cause I could see people pointing at me and talking about me. Other times I litterally hear them doing it, even men do it.
Thing is they need someone to feel as bad as they do all the time so they pick out the one that won't put on a fight.
The best advice I can give you is not to fight back, I was told that when people see you fight with a fool no one will tell the difference:-)
I have finished work,resting now.