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I feel less attractive and I feel my illness may have contributed to my marrage problems.
suzannemae suzannemae 36-40, F 12 Answers Aug 29, 2013 in Struggles

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doubt it......makes you easier to catch

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Ha ha you brought a real smile to me. Thanks😂

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I wouldn't think so. Get a real pretty walking stick so you feel more stylish

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Yet it is. Thanks

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No if your attractive i would ogle you it would probably draw my attention to you and if u are a looker wouldnt matter to me be happy to ogle you

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That's a thought maybe I should make the stick really noticeable, like florescent.

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When I used a standard aluminum cane, I painted it and wrapped ribbon around it. I did the same with my first walker. Now I have a blue folding cane that fits in the saddlebag of our Harley. I also use a rollator walker that has a seat. I have Harley and other biker decals plastered all over the seat. Present yourself in a way that projects confidence and style/attitude. I encounter a LOT of bias here, but chuck it off. New Mobility is a good magazine to read and there is a book called Enabling Romance. Disabled people encounter the same relationship issues as non-disabled, but we just have to work harder at ours. Above all, don't give up! And yes, having a wry sense of humor helps! :-)

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Amazingly, as an overweight woman who uses a cane, walker, and electric scooters while shopping, I get propositioned more now than before I became mobility impaired. There are dating communities which cater to disabled people, but the bottom line is who you are on the inside is what makes you attractive to a man. Any guy with a working brain <br />
will be able to see past your <br />
assistive technology.

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If I wasn't married I would want to hang out where you go cause it sounds cool. Do you think its also down to confidence as I practically try to be invisible when I'm out.

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nope. :)<br />
Body doesnt matter but the inner beauty does ;)

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Lets hope I get the inner beauty right or else I'm really buggered. Joking aside thanks.

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not real men

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I clearly don't bump into real men or maybe its not the stick but my face that's the problem. Now I think about it the stick is particularly attractive and does seem to get all the attention....*****!

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it's attitude and how you feel about yourself, I find women that think they're attractive to be attractive

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Right I have a date with a mirror to practice feeling more attractive. Cheap date anyway.

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you're sweet

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it shuldnt and if it does theyre idiots hun

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Thanks your right.

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Body massage can make you feel better. Let me know if I can be of service. I live in bay area of California. I know what points to push more to relieve your pain and you can get rid of walking stick forever.

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