this is tricky even for me when logged in - go to Edit Profile click on it then click back To Profile and you should then have it - saves logging in and out
you know EP make the simple things complicated and the complicated simple and then change everything without consulting :P
Wouldn't you go to your home page and click 'change status' on the rhs? I don't know, just speculating...
I lost it too, but it is on your Home page, (I think) It's on the far right hand side. If not on home page, try profile page.
Have you looked on your home page? It isn't where it used to be. It is now directly opposite your name on the far right, It doesn't even look the same, but it is there.