Eek! I need help ( Details )
Okay, so my ex-fiancée called me a week ago, and wanted to go out to dinner, I politely said no. Yesterday he called and said he wanted to come over and just talk, I let him. It went fine. Today he called, and texted me, he wants is to go back out. I don't know if I should trust him a second time, he snuck behind my back the first time.. what do you think? Should I trust him?
16 Answers to "Eek! I need help ( Details )"
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Love is not ba
seball. He doesn't deserve three strikes. He's already out. Leave him there. Like (2)
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Only if he wears an electronic ankle bracelet, and a chastity belt.
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I agree with many of the answers already given to you by people who answered ahead of me.
My contribution to your question is that the vast, vast majority of men do NOT change their ways. Oh, yes, they may temporarily change their habits and attitudes -- but only if it suits THEIR best interests -- not yours!
Of course he must have told you that he will never sneak out behind your back ... never again! (Right???). The fact is this: He will tell you ANYTHING, if he thinks you will come back to him. Once he has "snagged you" back under his influence, his sneaking around will resume. I absolutely guarantee it.
Many long-term relationships, including marriages, have broken up for one of two reasons (besides money, and infidelity):
1) The man complains that his wife "somehow changed"; and/or
2) The woman complains that her husband "won't change", even though she may have thought she could have changed his ways, in the beginning of the relationship or of the marriage.
Agreed, this is not the best of news to tell you -- but I sincerely hope this helps you make a clear decision for yourself.
Cheers,
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No.
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Your ex is an ex for a reason.
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People can absolutely change... The problem is, most people don't actually WANT to change. If they don't want to, they won't. Simple but true.
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Don't trust him.
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your instincts are probably right. go with your gut feeling. a zebra can't change his stripes and he won't change. you will get hurt again if you go back with him. move on.
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Too much drama already. Save yourself the distraction and get on with your life. This isn`t it.
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no way!
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No, just move on
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He cheated on you? I think you should wait five years and see how you both feel then. You are too young (from a scientific standpoint) to have a fiance)
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Just say no to losers.
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No. Once a cheater...always a cheater.
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No, move on. You're young, don't make the mistake.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by BlackToad 1 Mar 1st, 2013 at 10:27PM
Once a cheater,always a cheater.
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