Ever been completely betrayed by your "closest" friend?
20 Answers to "Ever been completely betrayed by your "closest" friend?"
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Perhaps everyone has been betrayed by their closest friend to some extent or another; however, I'll never forget the shock and realization of having been TOTALLY played an fooled. I came home to dark house one evening and found my wife had left and taken my kids away, and filed for divorce. Phone bills showed how she planned the getaway for days leading up to it. I was totally oblivious and naive. This happened a very long time ago, and the whole story is even longer, but to be treated like that, to be completely betrayed by someone you trusted was something I don't think anyone can be prepared for. It took me a while to heal, but I'm glad it happened since it forced me to look at other people through different lenses and accept the fact that not everyone is going to treat you the way you treat them.
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Ouch
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I never let people get that close anymore.
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Don't think I will either.
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Yes, a person who met in the second grade and grew up with betrayed me. I never kept score with the various business deals between us, but when it became apparent that he was taking advantage of me , I asked him to settle up our mutual debts. He stalled for years and then sent me a bill for double what I owed. I suggested to him that the only fair way to settle this mutual debt was to agree that we would close out each others outstanding debts and call it even. He quicky agreed to this settlement as it was to his advantage. I just wanted to end our friendship and I wanted no reason to ever see him again. I guess he ba
sed our friendship on money, his loss. Now I try to remember the words of "Tony Montana", "never under estimate the other guy's greed." Like (3)
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That is an excellent quote and sorry you had to go through that :(Like (1)
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When I was a teenager, my best friend did. When I was grown I chose a different best friend and 33 years, later, she's still my friend. But I learned a way of being guarded that has never quite left me.
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Yes I have she is married o my ex husband. Need I say more? I knew her from 3rd grade. I dont have that many close friends anymore, and all but 2 of them are men!!!
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Probably not completely betrayed, but forever and unfixably hurt would be pretty accurate. I am more careful now.
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I was betrayed by a person whom I considered a very good friend.
I just stay away.Like (3)
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He completely stabbed me in the back and when I saw him the next day he said, "How ya doing?" He was staying at my house and I kicked his *** out - that's how I'm doing!
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yes, she wasn't there for me when i needed a friend.
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Sorry :(
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thank you
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Yes I have :( she chose to put someone who threatened her with the highly mature "I'll never speak to you again if you don't tell" blackmail so my ex best friend of 8 years decided to go and tell my now ex/father of my baby girl something that caused our breakup during my pregnancy. *****! I hope she suffers forever and a day :/ I'd kept all her secrets yet she betrayed mine. Gutless backstabbing *****. She was a dog, good riddance :/
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That's not right. Shouldn't get involved in breaking up families.
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I know, I'd never spilled any of her secrets yet she did so to me :( she's friends with someone who thinks its ok to trash grave sites, stick her foot through someone's lounge room window and throw a can of Jim beam at a pregnant woman's stomach (that pregnant woman being me) and post slanderous **** in my letter box so all I say is GOOD RIDDANCE
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Fortunately my friends have been genuine and never betrayed me. My family has, but never my friends.
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I once had what I thought was a friend at this horrible day spa I work for. I made a mistake by going out with a creepy guy who a supervisor. We didn't go out for long, true to form the creep, thats right his name was Paul, started coming after my job, and my girlfriend behind my back. I was so upset when I found out, but I stuck my ground and told him to go get ****** and called in the union etc. He couldn't touch me, eventually found a better job and got the hell out of there. I learnt how nasty women can be, even women bosses just moles. Clarissa the dog friend, resigned and left as soon as I found out. What a putana. He just used her aswell and he was such a stud (NOT) retarted bastard.
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Yeah, he caused me to lose my $3,000 dog that I was really attached to..
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Yep.. I don't have friends ..:-) x
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Yes. Eventually led to divorce.
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Yes. Never again.
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yes, have had that happen
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Yes, I go drinking.
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i am my closet friend and my worse enemy
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by cpgnatly Nov 1st, 2012 at 4:03PM
I took the time to communicate about it and understood the mistake as did they in the end. The fact we worked it out demonstrated the friendship was real.
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Reply by hadyourchance Nov 1st, 2012 at 4:13PM
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