I mean this in a kind informative way, but sometimes, new fathers who have just had a new baby lose their elation because sometimes (not in all cases) they feel their partner is giving almost all her attention to her child. This is partially selfishness on the part of the father to see that it is only natural he would be having his attention divided with their new child. Usually in time they calm down and begin to adapt again and hopefully that will be the case for you and he gets closer again.
No, your boyfriend never made me pregnant. Well, seriously - your experience here is rather standard, most young studs are like that: They want to **** you and to make you fruitful; that done, they're finished with you and want the next one...
Old stud, then...
As a husband and father I can say that I that I've been in your situation, but from his side. I'm 57 and have spoken with many (100+) women in your situation. About 75% of the women have said the same thing. It also happens with most couples who are married. It is recommended by counselors that the mother try to get the father involved in some way with the baby even before they're born. Things letting him touch your belly to feel the baby kick, etc. go a long way to relieving his tension. It sure worked with me. That should help him to not feel neglected. He also needs to understand that your attention must be divided and that your feelings for him have not changed.<br />
So yes, your situation is very normal both during pregnancy and after delivery. Good luck. <3
my son just married a girl like that . her boyfriend just wanted to play . not responsibility . old saying he poked it at her in fun and she took it serious . good luck to you ! hope you are ok ! :-)
I really feel for you. This is the time where he should shower you with love and affection. you are going to be the mother of his child. I would advise you to talk to him and express your concerns. Maybe there is an explanation. it could be stress of becoming a new parent. Good luck!
Have you asked him?
It aint easy in the beginning. It will get easier