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Every marriage i know, has a hard time after the 1st year of marriage... couple's complain about eachother

no satisfaction, they seem to talk about break up.. once this phase goes away everything goes normal... y it is like this? was your marriage also like this?

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    doneitagain - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by doneitagain Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:13PM

    Living with anyone a whole year will bring out complaints it can be a rough adjustment especially if you do things a lot differently but it doesn't mean you can't still love each other.People who compromise instead of being stubborn or selfish do best.

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9 Answers to "Every marriage i know, has a hard time after the 1st year of marriage... couple's complain about eachother"

  1. LucilleLucilleLucille - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by LucilleLucilleLucille Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:12PM

    My marriage was not like that.Maybe that is because I waited until 32 years of age to get married.
    If I have a problem with my husband I talk to him directly and never complain and whine about him to my friends.
    I do however,know plenty of people who complain about their spouses.I wonder why they would still stay married to a demon. XD

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  2. GirlThinking - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by GirlThinking Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:52PM

    I like your answer... Agree this is how things have to be...

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  3. AliveToThrive - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by AliveToThrive Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:12PM

    The first year is just the beginning ... it only scratches the surface when it comes to challenging your pride and selfishness (usually about adjusting living together) ... the next years will when it becomes deeper and you begin to really understand what loving another person means ...

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  4. MichaelJad - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by MichaelJad Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:10PM

    Really?

    I thought it was meant to be fun and happy throughout

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  5. GirlThinking - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by GirlThinking Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:52PM

    hehehe :)

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  6. Whateverrrrr - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Whateverrrrr Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:10PM

    When a person gets married they're sharing their place with another and both need to compromise on each others habits.

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  7. KingofSwords - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by KingofSwords Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:35PM

    I'm in my first year of marriage and I don't complain about my wife. I love her. I think people go through an adjustment period as they get to know more about the day to day activities of their spouse. Complaining about them doesn't solve any problems, it only creates them. I will joke about quirky things that she does and she does the same with me but other than that, no we don't complain about each other.

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  8. amritsingh1990 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by amritsingh1990 Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:18PM

    i think that it happens in arrange marriage

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  9. Dot11 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Dot11 Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:09PM

    If they weren't prepared, the first year is difficult. It's because you may step on each other toes when it's your first time living with each other.

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  10. rknst74 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by rknst74 Aug 31st, 2012 at 1:09PM

    well often if you stick it out it becomes a nice balance,not always but....

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