It's not a question of what men like, if you mean ALL men. It's a question of what one particular man likes, or what several men like who have that in common. I like women who are somewhere between quiet and boisterous. Knowing when to be each way is the key. The same can be said about clothing and make-up between looking hot or looking very conservative.
In the situation that you mentioned in your replies, it wasn't the boisterousness (if that's a word) of the women that attracted the men. It was the fact that the men were made to feel comfortable and liked by them. Men love sex, as we all know. A woman who acts that way around us makes us think that they're into us, that they want to be our girlfriends or at least flirt with us. This makes us feel great inside. It also makes us horny and thinking about sex a lot. It makes us look at their bodies and wonder how they might look naked and panting heavily. They make us feel like we can just ask for sex and they'll say yes to us.
But if we did have sex with them, we would lose our respect for them afterward. Why? Because they were too easy. They were blinding us with passion so now that our hormones are at rest, we can see them for who they really are. A good man would not want a woman like that as his wife.
So if you want to attract all men, be boisterous. If you want to attract husband material, act like wife material. :)
One more thing. We men are usually nervous about being rejected. If a woman makes a move on us, it negates that fear and we relax. This works whether you're being boisterous or just friendly.
You're most welcome! Women are still somewhat of a mystery to me, but not so much so anymore. The main point is that you should be yourself and you'll attract men who like you for who you are. You will also attract jerks so be wary and selective.
Oh yes, I learned about that one a long time ago! We men are fixers. When we hear that our loved one has a problem, we listen and then offer a resolution to the problem. A funny thing about women is that they don't always want help. They're either satisfied with just living with it or they eventually solve it themselves. It happens to me too, where I tell someone my problem, and then I see the answer in my mind as I talk. It's weird but true!
Extroverts always attract those around them and being loud can be mistaken for being an extrovert. Well, technically, a loud and obnoxious person is an extrovert, just an irritating one.
I wish I could give you a satisfactory answer. I don't like those women either, I'm more into the kind that exudes quiet confidence and inner strength. I guess many guys think that Loud=Popular=Trophy Catch. Unattainable b!tches seem like a challenge, merely on account of brushing people off for no good reason. And, you have to admit, being loud definitely helps attract attention in a crowded place. Real question is, why on earth would you hang out with such people in the first place? :p
Could it be the men mistook their selfishness for confidence?
serenity and composure.
yep, one that wont run from me
Men are usually just looking for a vagina. It doesnt matter how you act or what clothes you wear or really how you look men just want one thing .. Something i was told.. A vagina doesnt have a face.
i think that men like women,who have good personalities with a good sense of humour,but if she is a strong women,an independent thinker,i think they lose interest fast-------
I LIKE A QUITE WOMEN MYSELF
Everybody's different. Why but?