Everytime I want to distance myself from my boyfriend, he is in need of some support. What can I do?
My boyfriend and I dated a year before we graduated college. My love for him had always been fizzling away but I decided to not act on it. Shortly, he started doing his internship, and I stay cross-country. I thought this would be a true test for my feelings for him. Turns out, I don't really care. I even imagine him with another girl to see if that would get me riled up, but it doesn't.
We gave ourselves a year after graduation, and if we still couldn't find a way to make it non-long-distance, we would move on separately. He still has feelings for me, and now that his internship is done, he is having problems at his parent's house because they are separated, and he doesn't want to be involved in their complications. He is already asking me if he can move in with me when I get a job (because I was interviewed for a position close to his hometown). I understand his pain, but I don't know how to break it to him easily? I wanted to tell him earlier but his internship got in the way. Help!