Sad as it is, yes tell him, well no write him a letter or e-mail, to leave you alone. But only once. After that, ignore him, you can't let him have this hold over you, it is not good for you.
Do't you agree that over is over? Move on!
let the fish swim, if he wants to find the shore he knows where to go
don't say anything......you'll just encourage him. I don't think it's a coincidence that he texts you and then you run into his pals.....it's over honey, don't get hurt again, they may want to change but they can't. take care and good luck with your app op.
in that case, be VERY careful. I had a psycho b*^terd. Together for 1 1/2 yrs before a 7 yr marriage...2 days of marriage and he took off and had an affair. I was beaten black and blue constantly, of course in places not obvious to others. One cop that charged him was on the force for 5 years and said as he was photographing my badly beaten body, that this was the worst case of spousal abuse he had seen! You're out, so stay out...please, please, please...this type never changes, well maybe for the worse....omg is right sista....stay in contact with me, cause now I'm gonna worry for you :-( hugs
Ask yourself... Do you want him...!!! Then
Just tell him straight "One way or the Other"
Then you will feel better and be able to carry on with your life
and he will know He has blown it?
If that's the way you feel about, then yeah tell him to leave you alone