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Ex on facebook?

So my ex-girlfriend (the one immediately preceeding this relationship) has found me on facebook. My girlfriend found the original message and started messaging her and is now saying things like, "we should all hang out." Um, no. Is it just me or does that seem like a recipe for disaster? She says that just because I've messaged her a few times, like, hey how have you been, that I shouldn't mind hanging out with her. But I do. It would be awkward, and I doubt that I would be able to do anything right the entire night...this is compounded by the fact that I know my current gf thinks I still have feelings for the ex. I don't think I do, but why make things complicated by becoming best friends? I'm sure they'd get along, they both have quirky personalities, am I being selfish, or does anyone think I'm right in saying no to this?

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They want to get together to compare notes about YOU.

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durbanpoison	Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 4:39PM what the **** do you have facebook for?! Rated: +2Vote for this!
Lucyintheskywithd iamonds	Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 4:44PM FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS! It might turn out OK, just like monkeys might start flying out of your mom's butt. Seriously, do not let current GF have anything to do with former GF. You gotta stop the emailing too. Good luck! Rated: +2Vote for this!
2Emotional	Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 4:43PM I hope you didn't add her to your friends list and if you did I would remove her ASAP. Why do something like hanging out if it's going to make you uncomfortable. Rated: +2Vote for this!
edgargeorge	Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 4:42PM You are right to say no. She's your ex for a reason. Rated: +1Vote for this!
becca1324	Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 4:33PM well since shes ur ex i would say no just the same reason you would im like prob way younger than you but i kno what ur going thru it will get confusing at one point but you will find out what 2 do some time later on in this problem... but dont get mad or confused 2 make ur gf happy just tell her y u said no and im am a girl so ya. thats y i no all this... kk ttyl bye Rated: +1Vote for this!
OverDoseOnLife	Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 9:07PM Don't do it bro!!! It will lead to no good! my friend regrets it (similar situation). I currently had my x find me too. We chat and txt. But that's as far as im taking it. Stick to what YOU think man, not what other people think. Rated: +1Vote for this!
redflame	Posted Nov 5th, 2009 at 3:29AM Your ex is an Ex for a reason. Best to have no contact with your ex and move on with your current gf. It is weird, and awkward for all concerned. I used to msg my ex bf, but ive since deleted his number, Why do you want to dig up passed history and feelings. It will only intoxicate your current relationship. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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