Facing my biggest bullies and their rude parents at a wedding. how do I compose myself?
without wanting to throw up or s*** on myself. whenever I see them from a distance I guess I panic sub consciously whether I tell myself to or not and my body reacts. my stomach gets upset and starts to hurt.
I'm thinking of taking valium that day so I don't have a panic attack. I don't know how the f*** I'm going to get that s*** prescribed to me though -.-
6 Answers to "Facing my biggest bullies and their rude parents at a wedding. how do I compose myself?"
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You have to keep in mind that not everyone is evolved enough to understand the significance of spreading positive energy throughout the world. No one can make you feel badly unless you give them permission, but this can be hard. Keep your focus on why you're there & try not worry about those lesser evolved souls - they aren't worth the stress & anxiety you're feeling! Stay poised & positive. I don't know what these people have put you through to make you so anxious, but I wouldn't even let on that you're aware of their presence. If interacting with these people is unavoidable, be cordial & keep the conversations as short as possible.
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Go to the chemist or health store and buy a product called rescue remedy. It is a natural spray that you spray on your tongue and is meant to keep you calm. Stand tall and don't let them see you are worried and remember that in a yelling match no one really wins and the person who can keep calm and still say that put down in a soft, calm voice is usually the winner. Nothing like a comment such as 'Oh you do look nice in that dress, you must have lost a lot of weight to fit it.'
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rescue remedy is a hoax, we did a scientific research project on it and I came across a good article on Yahoo that backed up its sources. But I found this! http://m.voices.yahoo.com/kanna-miraculous-natural-antidepressant-1960932.html I don't know how to use it though?
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by holding your head high, looking FABulous and not getting snot-arsed drunk (as tempting as that is)
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post us some of the things they say to you & we can come up with some snappy come-backs so you aren't at a loss for wordsLike (2)
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o M G, it's like you read my mind! I was thinking of getting drunk, but then I said to myself naaa this is a Christian wedding I'm going to lol back in the day they would say that I was a ****, they would say that I was a lesbian *****, and they would say that I need to go slit my wrist because I told them I cut myself as a child. Then after telling me I was a ****, or, lesbian ****, suicidal *****, they resorted to staring at me rudely , pushing by me without saying excuse me or acknowledging my existence if I sit next to them, or gossiping in front of me
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1 of them also told me to meet with her at her house so that we could fight. My boyfriend told her no, because you're too ugly. Lol
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lol, who needs a presc
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People really hate confrontation in this age it wont go away so just deal with your problems
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Posted by reigirl 1 Sep 25th, 2012 at 1:09AM
Completely ignore them, if possible. I wish you luck, sounds kinda sticky.
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