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Fact or fiction? All men will cheat given the opportunity.

This is something women love to discuss. The young, newly weds believe their men will never cheat and the experienced ones... well, most of us know better by now and some women are very lucky. Their husbands have never cheated (at least not that they know of). But what are your views? Personally, I have yet to find a man who will not take that opportunity if it is handed to him on a silver platter.

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    ChipmunkErnie - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by ChipmunkErnie 1 Oct 24th, 2010 at 11:46AM

    Not all, but maybe most, given the opportunity and the right person to cheat with, plus the right emotional situation. After all, we're just like women.

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  1. Alera - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Alera Oct 22nd, 2010 at 11:20PM

    I have to say: I agree with you.

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16 Answers to "Fact or fiction? All men will cheat given the opportunity."

  1. OdiumIncantatum - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by OdiumIncantatum Oct 23rd, 2010 at 5:47PM

    Not true. Not all men cheat.... And not all women are loyal either.

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  2. toughchick - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by toughchick Oct 26th, 2010 at 4:57AM

    Men cheat because they are not happy and they are looking for satisfaction for something missing in their relationship. Happy men don't cheat. Trouble is the time span in which men stay happy can be shorter than a woman's.

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  3. vincentsong - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by vincentsong Oct 22nd, 2010 at 11:04PM

    I think cheating has a lot to do with having an oppurtunistic attitude. For example, given the right time in the right place with the right chemistry; I do see a man cheating, now will every man go the whole way. Well I see that as the act of loyalty by them not giving into oppurtunity. And for women I think it is more of an emotion stability thing. For example, a woman will probably cheat if she is betrayed, deceived, angry or just out of pure vengeance, and unless there's some incredibly strong desire to not give into her temptrous responses, then she would probably go all the way, but then ends up suffering more then the man based on the post- guilt. shame and remorse from giving into her emotional undertow; thus confusing herself on her loyalty.

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  4. mythickdick2013 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by mythickdick2013 Apr 23rd, 2013 at 10:29AM

    Not all men cheat, I think it matters on the person, myself for instance.. I have had MANY, MANY chances to do it, I have had very pretty woman come to door buck naked and I have had them ask me point blank " wanna ****", of course I say " sorry im married", now don't get me wrong, I have beat my meat after I got home LOL, BUT to cheat would betray my wife and after 20 years of marriage whats the point, she has NEVER told me no, other than if she's real tired from work or sick and that understandable, I think most me cheat because their wives play ***** power games which to me is sick and twisted, to quote my wife " if you don't want him to cheat give up the ***** when he wants it", I Thank God I have a woman like that...

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  5. thomasedwin - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by thomasedwin Feb 18th, 2012 at 12:26AM

    I would say most inmature young men would cheat given the chance, 15 to 30 year olds, Not all men are dogs, Black guys cheat every chance they get exspecialy if they can get a white woman, How do I know this? I've been to prison and black men will only be doing a short time, 6 months to 18 months and these black guys will be letting gay men give them oral sex and will have anal with them too and they have a woman on the outside with kids and they still do it, Beleive it or not, they all do it and they call it (gay for the stay) they try to act like their not gay, they use the excuse that these gay men they have sex with are *******, to them it's all good, If theses black men will do this in the joint what do you think they do when their on the streets, not all do this but by first hand experience 99.5 % do and they see it as having sex with a woman, they deny their gay or bisexual but they streight **** other men in their anis and let other men put their mouth on their penis. Like I said I've been to prison and I saw them do this, think what you want, Thats why I will not do anything with a white woman that dates black men. the next worse is the hispanic man, They do the same thing but only about 45 or 50 % do compared to black men, The next is the white man, mostly the only white guys that do this is the ones who are gay before they even got to the joint, this is about 1 tenth of one % of the population, the other 10% of the gay men are black And they dress like a woman and have breast like a woman cause they get hormone shots and the state pays for it, Im a streight white man and I've never had sex with another man at all but I thought it would be a good insite to a woman out there that wanted to see what happens in a closed enviorment.

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  6. crocomac13 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by crocomac13 Oct 29th, 2010 at 7:00PM

    Fiction

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  7. drlesmoore - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by drlesmoore Oct 26th, 2010 at 9:29AM

    I disagree. Sexually speaking, I know that I am not large enough or long lasting enough for my wife. She is socially, intellectually and physically, not to mention financially more advanced than I am. I am so worried about loosing her until I do not even imagine being with another woman. My fantacies are about my wife.

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  8. wickey - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by wickey Oct 25th, 2010 at 3:54AM

    Not all men

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  9. Jacob1080David - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Jacob1080David Oct 23rd, 2010 at 1:46AM

    I think it is fact. Because I consider cheating to be any desire for sexual pleasure that does not come from your partner. ex: looking is cheating.

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  10. lrkun - 26 years old - male

    Posted by lrkun Oct 23rd, 2010 at 1:21AM

    Fiction, because not all men cheat. Some, but not all.

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  11. uliftmeup - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by uliftmeup Oct 23rd, 2010 at 12:14AM

    my guess, it's not a matter of man or woman.

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  12. stu73 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by stu73 Oct 22nd, 2010 at 11:10PM

    Fiction - at least for me. If there's something (someone) I really want, I call and ask permission (and will obey what she says). If's not cheating if it's not dishonest. However, this has only been once, usually we "play" together. My wife and I think this attitude is much healthier than hiding something from eachother.

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  13. flintlockpistol - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by flintlockpistol Oct 22nd, 2010 at 10:50PM

    Biologically, men are more likely to "cheat' because they have a natural compulsion to spread their DNA. Women have less opportunities to do this, because they have to go through the whole process of childbirth and raising the offspring. So they consider it "safer" to stay with one reliable man as a source of genetic material. So anyway, yes, I think most men will cheat given the opportunity. But I think monogamy is a joke, so I'm not complaining.

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  14. golightly - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by golightly Oct 22nd, 2010 at 10:41PM

    Fiction!
    Human behavior is varied - women cheat as often as men.
    and while some men will cheat - not all will.

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  15. Effenladida - 41-45 years old

    Posted by Effenladida Oct 22nd, 2010 at 10:38PM

    Yeah, pretty much. There is a school of thought that says women should just accept this concept, as hard as it is.

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