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Faith & S-ex: is there ANY restrictions in your religion regarding s-ex between a married couple? What are they? more

years ago, after i became a christian, someone advised me that Christians couldn't do 'oral', while others have said that in their faith, s-ex is only for procreation, not recreation.

It is my experience however that the 'Christians' I know seem very 'normal' and do anything & everything others do, only within the confines of marriage...

what's your experience? Do you observe any restrictions based on your belief?

What about: Toys, roleplay, fantasy, mast*urbation, An-al, oral... restrictions?

if so, please share what they are, and what the restriction is based on, (i.e. verse, tradition, doctrine, etc.)

please feel free to share any thoughts on this,

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FOR THE SAKE OF THIS QUESTION, LIMIT DISCUSSION baseD ON A MARRIED HETEROSE-XUAL COUPLE - NOT INTENDING THIS TO BE A DEBATE ON G-AY RIGHTS, THAT'S FOR A DIFFERENT THREAD...

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    Babydoll42 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Babydoll42 Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:11PM

    I think it's deplorable that religion should infiltrate the bedrooms of married couples in any way....other than the occasional outcry of 'Oh God', there should be no room in my s3x life for religion or faith.....

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  1. jeffonep - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by jeffonep Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:17PM

    doesn't everyone attach some level of values and morals on their behaviour, regardless of the origen of said values? even your statement is laden with values, after all... why do you assume values based on religion are worse then others?

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  2. Babydoll42 - female

    Reply by Babydoll42 Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:22PM

    No...I don't assume they're 'worse'....I simply believe that there should be no *rules* within the bedroom walls, other than the ones the couple lays out for themselves...and I don't call on religion to decide what I'm comfortable with in my s3x life....

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  1. AEther2 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by AEther2 Feb 1st, 2013 at 4:06PM

    As a Wiccan I can say that for the most part the idea we have is "if harm ye none do what thou wilt" and that goes for a lot of things not just sex. I mean no cheating in the relationship but I think that goes without saying.

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  2. Rivfader - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Rivfader Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:25PM

    In my religion "marriage" is more of an oath between two people, to stay with each other for the remainder of their lives, s3x, and how they have it, is completely up to them. Although, submissiveness in men, is degrading; Now that doesn't mean it always has to be "man-on-top" in-out straight forward stuff, it just means I don't believe it's ok, to engage in the whole BDSM thing, as it's twisted, and unnatural.

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  3. jeffonep - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by jeffonep Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:33PM

    thanks for the thoughts, interesting.

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  4. doneitagain - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by doneitagain Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:09PM

    I have read articles and book chapters on this very thing and the concenscous is it is all ok as long as both parties are comfortable with it.Except for the ************ if you are alone.It is ok with your partner present if it is part of intimacy.

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  5. jeffonep - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by jeffonep Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:11PM

    what if the person fantasizes about their partner when ************ and alone? still a no-go?

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  6. doneitagain - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by doneitagain Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:13PM

    Yes because then we risk the danger of substituting one for the other or one over the other.

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  7. SilenceEvermore - 18-21 years old

    Posted by SilenceEvermore Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:54PM

    I believe sódomy is frowned upon in my religious belief. I don't plan on doing any of that crap anyway..so I don't worry about it.

    Másturbation is most definitely a sin. I don't engage in that either.

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  8. jeffonep - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by jeffonep Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:54PM

    nice pun! hehehe

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  9. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by cpgnatly Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:12PM

    Marriage is about money, not s3x.

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  10. jeffonep - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by jeffonep Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:34PM

    but for the sake of this question????

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  11. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by cpgnatly Feb 1st, 2013 at 2:39PM

    Your question is directed at people who give authority to people that are best not holding that authority. Love is best in a relationship. When there is love, the couple respects each other in physical relations without abstract religious rules to make fools feel comfortable outside of the relationship.

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