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False people i work with why?
how do you get on with false people i work with,i cant be like them?its very difficult,they look at me strange its a bit like a cult,i dont want to be like them
Posted 1 month ago
johnsevigne
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i have left many a job because of the coworkers, and/or supervisors...i got to a point where i realized that as long as i did my job the best i could, who cared what they thought of me. the only aspect of my life they were a part of was 9-5. i wasn't going to miss out on making money because of how i was treated. if it gets to a point of you being miserable at work every day, there are people and organizations you can contact to resolve and and all problems...keep your chin up, and realize that you're doing nothing wrong. perhaps they're jealous of you!
Posted 1 month ago
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PeedeeDog
Posted Dec 1st, 2008 at 9:21PM
Do your job and do it well! Ignore the false people, whom ever they are.
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PorcupineMan
Posted Dec 1st, 2008 at 10:33PM
Kill them, chop them up and then burn their bodies. That'll Learn 'em!

I'm just kidding in case you couldn't tell, don't freak out.
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RobertHedrock
Posted Dec 1st, 2008 at 2:49AM
Do you mean those dummies who stand in front of the window all day? I just ignore them.
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Dimples87
Posted Dec 1st, 2008 at 12:35AM
Ignore them. I know this is hard but when our co-workers make it hard to work, we have to go to work just to work. We don't need to befriend people who make their co-workers personal friends. You said these people were in some kind of cult or seemed like it, is this something you want to associate yourself with. If not, avoid them and ignore them unless you need something as far as your work is concerned.
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j293339
Posted Dec 1st, 2008 at 12:57AM
I'm not sure what you mean by "false people", but sometimes I've found my co-workers to be reason enough to find another job. You spend a third of your time with your co-workers, so it's important to have people around you whose company you enjoy.
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hellagood
Posted Dec 1st, 2008 at 4:49AM
what do u mean by "false people"?
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Armine
Posted Dec 2nd, 2008 at 8:36PM
Just be yourself, and hopefully things will work out for you... if not then there's always another job, somewhere out there ;)
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mamajill
Posted Dec 3rd, 2008 at 8:00AM
well it is like being the mother of little two year old you have to develope the exnore part of your personality
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levin60kitty
Posted Dec 3rd, 2008 at 12:17PM
Most people like that are so insecure in themselvs they have to point a finger at someone else. Its the same as making a speech. Look at them and imagine all of them in their underwear, being stupid. Do your job well, ignore the idiots. And remember: If the idiots in life get to you - well they are still idiots.
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lovelife542
Posted Dec 3rd, 2008 at 7:51PM
just dont get friendly with them. just do what you have to do, and if you can try and stay away from them.many people are so fake, especially at a job. i see it as insecurity.i had to ignore certain people when i was working, as they put on a false face, and one was such a bully.
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JollyRogerett
Posted Dec 3rd, 2008 at 8:07PM
I work in a place where one of my co-workers is constantly trying to get everyone in trouble. She lies to our boss, is rude and will stab you in the back in a hot minute. It used to bother me but I've learned I can work with her and just try to steer clear of her bullcrap. I'm nice and polite and I do my job. In fact I make it a point to work circles around her. Deal with it the best you can. I try to kill her with kindness but always watch your back! Try not to give them the satisfaction of knowing they're getting to you. Just do your job and do it better than them!
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