I've been through that. I was always polite and kind to mine yet she couldn't care any less whether I lived or died, in fact, I think the latter would be just alright with her regardless.
My goal was to stop liking someone like that. I had to realize what I saw in her was not her but rather just the person I wanted her to be. It's a ***** though to separate the two with someone in real life. Still, the idea that a better person could be out there helps to rightfully diminish my erroneous crush.
Dude that's love.
If he has a girlfriend than its pointless unless they are into more people joining in. Id say, just try to move on because ten years is a long time....
Maybe it would help if you ask yourself why you like him. You dont even talk to him right? Do you like the idea of him or him?
Well maybe start from there and be honest with yourself. If you know its never gonna happen it might be easier for you to move on.
if you let em know while he still has a girlfriend, it could get weird for him. it wouldn't be proper for him to keep talking to a girl who has feelings for him while he has a girlfriend. unless theres an actual chance of something happening there, i'd leave it alone.
you have to keep your mind busy move on and find someone else..its the only way.
Your feelings are what they are. Only you can let them diminish and that may or may not happen. Sometimes it takes years to get over certain people. Everyone has their own way and time fr
Get plenty of distractions like school, hobbies, movies and art perhaps writing poetry? Drawing, making jewelry,painting, practice doing your make up like perhaps experimenting w various colors or methods. The craftstores r full of inspiration for hobbies it's worth a shot ;)
I think that's normal. That means he has the qualities that you like.
mine's been going on for about seven years. just keep on looking for someone else. distractions are the key. he doesn't have to be mr. right, just mr. right now. and in the meantime, fake it until you make it. eventually your heart will align with your head.