Finacé implies you have agreed to be married, not boyfriend girlfriend. Children are for after marriage, in my opinion,
Not with my husband, father of our children, but yes a marriage took place beforehand. He now has a child with his girlfriend, no divorce !!! I had Sunday school lessons, thought marriage was FOREVER, he thought it included other vaginas and on a regular basis !! My wedding day was wonderful, never thought I would be marred (parents divorced) but if they promise to marry you, have that day, babies later.
If he loves you he should respect your decission. I would wait. But nomatter what you do make sure you are not rushing into things befor you are ready.
Forget morals. Don't worry about a possible baby. Someone will feed it for you. Just do what feels good right now. Why listen to anything except what you want to do.
I hate to admit, my first thought was anal. Ya, wait til you're tied and settled for kids.
Don't give in to him right away! Let him wait until you have all your clothes off
Lemme guess, it's baby time!?
ONLY when your ready... none of the other factors like marriage and things like that should apply. If you can give the child all that it needs and want to devote the rest of your life to it, then Yes. Otherwise, not yet
What are you 12? If he wants it and if you want it, do it. M'gawd, you are so behind the times.