You have some very good points. It is very hypocritical to spank a girl bare butted for showing "too much skin".
Yes, I think it probably is sexist and even if one supports spanking that's wrong. The catch 22. Anyone who agrees with bb spanking will agree spanking for disobedience is legit, so if you refuse to cover up - sexist or not, that's disobeyance. so the trick is for parents to only make rules that are as close to being objectively fair as possible... And not impose sexist rules in the first place.
I see your points but it is not being sexist it is facing the reality that all teenage boys want sex. Daughters are the ones that come home pregnant and the boys leave them the second they find that out. It is wrong both ways but a female that flaunts what she has is sending the message that she is easy to get and will have sex with just about anybody. I am not saying she will or won't but that is the message she would be sending. Therefore, she is disrespecting herself, her family, and the female gender so no it would not be wrong to give her a good old fashioned spanking. However, the boys who go around flaunting their skin and stuff need a good spanking as well.
What I meant by that is the way some people would see it. Most of that comes from paranoid people that was like that when they were young. I agree both ways that it takes two to tango. However, some people still try to live like this is the 1820's and there are a lot of people who get behind on child support because they don't pay it like they are supposed to.
good point !
Well Becky you and I have talked about this before. If you are told not to swear something and what would happen if you did. Well then yes you should be spanked. You choice to wear what you were told not to wear but you choice other wise. Now the way you were spanked was wrong. You should have been spanked in private like behind any closed door. Now you cannot control what your parents do of course this being said when your dad okay sorry step dad said he was going to spank you should of just did what he told you to do even if you were against it. Because the longer you fight the spanking the worse the spanking will be right or the more chance someone will come in and see the whole thing. Or you should of ran off into another room and called your mom. It time you were honest young lady you worn what you were told not to wear because you wanted to push you step dad to see what he would do. Yes I believe you said your mom said you could wear that bikini but your step dad said no well why not listen to your step dad it's not the point your mom said yes you would not get any punishment from her what ever you did but with your step dad you would get spanked so why not wear something else and save your bum and get your mom to speak to your step dad. Okay I believe you said you did not think you would get caught wearing it. But surely when you put it on you thought in the back of your head wearing this will get me a sore bum? But you choice to wear in any ways so more or less you were willing to risk it. Okay you are right you mom said you could but what your mom said would not get you into trouble with anyone but your step would spank you so you should of play save and let your parents work it out. Yes I totally agree with you that having to different answers is not go for anyone both parent should be on the same page.
Yea but Becky this was done to you not that you had a choice in it. You will find a lot of people here on EP that are drive cars one moment and the next bent over the bed getting spanked. And yes I know people lie here but these people I trust. But again you mom could of put a stop to these spanking just by telling your step dad no you cannot spank by kids.
Well if she allowed your step dad to spank your brother then why not you? and it was not the first time he spanked you right?