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For the guys...what combination of traits appeals to you?

Out of curiousity, if a guy had to pick one of the following in a woman, what would it be? Cute and Sexy, Beautiful and Sexy, or Smart and Sexy?
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Ok, well, call me shallow, but beauty you are BORN with, smart you aren't. You can always teach people things, no matter how unwilling to learn they may seem to be. Obviously, I fully disagree with the Ron White quote, "You can't fix stupid."...because it's flat out not true. You CAN fix ignorance, stupidity, boorishness, or any other form of "not being intelligent enough for you elitists". It's called reading and learning and helping to make knowledgeable through experience. SO give me a gorgeous, ditzy girl all day long. I'll help her beat you at math.
Now, to sort of play Devils Advocate, the broadness of the question and it's prescribed answers don't really do much for me in general, regardless of my previous diatribe. I like a girl who is somewhat sexy, but not too much because sex appeal seems to be the downfall of any good relationship...and then beauty itself is completely in the eye of the beholder, so who's to say a girl is beautiful just because I say so? And obviously I don't want a girl who's dumb as a rock and has no spark for learning, but there's something to be said for a healthy amount of innocence and naivete', in order to make one feel like they have something to offer that hasn't been offered before. Any combination of these things can be good for a short-term relationship, and some of them prove to make it through into long-term ones.
ACTUAL traits you should look for in your prospective mate:
Nice eyes
A willingness to try new things, both intellectually and physically.
A strong will and determination to not be part of the herd.
A healthy interest in sexual conduct(or misconduct, as the case may be)
Stick to these things and you'll do better than the guy going for a girl just because she's already smart or gorgeous.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 7:42PM
Sexy is not a trait. Sexy is a matter of ones opinion. As a man I think an open smile is sexy and beautiful. I think a wide open face when talking is cute and beautiful. And the way she pulls you closer as you kiss is sexy. Sexy is what she feels when you do the right things. Sexy is what you feel when she returns the love. Beautiful is your own taste. Everyone is beautiful but if they are rotten inside, They are really ugly. Cute is what you call someone when you really don't know if you are fully attracted to them. When you meet someone. If the world behind them stops spinning, the knees that hold you up begin to buckle, and your mind won't let you escape their smile. That is beautiful, That is cute, and that is sexy. If you can't hold a conversation. Everything I just said is out the window is three years. When you find that girl or guy. Don't let them go. For that is not smart!
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 10:58PM
Smart and Sexy... hands down (although you didn't give us the choice of Funny and Sexy and that would have been a harder choice honestly)... as the comedian Ron White says (you can't fix stupid).
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 11:03PM
Smart and sexy if I had to pick. Why would you want to be with someone that you couldn't talk to? The relationship would be empty then and it would be hard to have respect for her watching her not be smart.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 11:09PM
I have a friend that is sexy and cute. But she has no brain. She has a smart boyfriend and my other girlfriends and I always crack up laughing wondering what they would be talking about. I can't even have a real conversation with her because it gets no where. Haha. Just want to add this. Sometimes guys like the cute and sexy.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 11:37PM
I'm not so sure about the limitations of the question presented. The best bj I've ever had in MY ENTIRE LIFE came from a CPA who wore a 32A bra - she wasn't beautiful; she wasn't necessarily sexy, she was pretty smart - but, the way that we got along was absolutely incredible.

I once saw a quote about things that guys really mean whenever they say something. The one that absolutely made the most sense to me: whenever a guy says, "I'm not sure if I like her yet, or not" - what he's really saying is, "she doesn't swallow, so I'm not sure if I want to hang onto her or not" - or, "she gives lousy head - and doesn't finish things up".

A lady out of bed, a sluttie tramp in the bed, now that helps make a guy happy - along with not nagging too much!
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 12:17AM
cute and sexy
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 1:11AM
Smart and sexy. Everything else goes away and it all gets down to personalities.

Be smart and fun. Be nice and considerate. Be sure and be true.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 1:59AM
Depth, intelligence, kindness, reasonably attractive, taller than me, hard core feminist, rational.
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