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veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F 14 Answers Sep 28, 2012 in Crushes & Obsessions

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I have never been in an abusive relationship and I would make sure that I never will. <br />
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But, all I have to say to the victims is:<br />
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1. staying with partner = ongoing abuse leading to murder <br />
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2. leaving partner = freedom, independence, peace, and joy with a much better person

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I didn't have the guts to leave until our 6 month old got hit once instead of me. I realized then that it wasn't just about me. Then I moved 900 miles away. I've never regreted it. My beautiful daughter is almost 13 now & an amazing person

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wow, that's so sad but i guess it was a blessing indisguised because it made you see the truth. good for you! xoxo

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If you had stayed in the relationship, then you and your daughter would had been in great jeopardy.

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Easy.<br />
A truce.<br />
Lots of make up sex and<br />
then divorce.

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usually by someone leaving.

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never been in one...ever... would not let a guy hit me. Have a friend... every guy she has had, has hit her... every guy!!

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maybe she likes it. i had a friend who was with a guy like that and one day when she was drunk she told me it turned her on.

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serious.....now my friend wont leave him because he makes good $. her kids, &amp; even their kid, together, don't like him.

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yea, that's the worst part. the kids are emotionally and psychologically effected by this.

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yes....thankfully

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After 21 years I walked out I left everything including him behind

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what made you decide to leave? and did you still love him whilst you were planning on leaving him?

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It was that near death experience he put me through...And yes I did still love him....DID but not anymore

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he almost killed you????

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Yes and I thank God his aim was off

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my God. is he in jail?

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No he is living in his own hell now his health has got the best of him

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that's karma

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Before he could hit me again, his dog attacked him and tore the flesh of his arm down to the bone - I ran to my car , got my already loaded gun and gave him a choice - he chose to live. I never had a problem, or relationship, with him again

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WOW great dog! what ever happend to the dog?

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I imagine he beat the crap out of her - after his trip to emergency - I never went back. The funny thing is she was the SWEETEST dog, never a hint at aggression even when she had puppies

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aweee, poor dog.

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She was a lifesaver for me that's for sure - if he would've connected I would've been toast

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yeah God bless that dog for saving your life.

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He ended it. I didn't initiate the breakup.

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