Found out I am being laid off and I meed a major operation in the space of one week. Where are my friends?
They express some concern but I do not hear from them now. If one one of them were in such a crisis, I would be checking on them every few days and trying to help - even if it was nothing but an encouraging word. Perhaps I expect too much of them. I do know that I am the one they call when they have a crisis and I have always been there. I supposed the saying about how you find out who your true friends are when you have major trouble is true. It makes me even sadder than I am even poorer than an unemployed sick person with no health insurance - I actually have no one to really care about what happens to me. I don't want anything from them but support. I have never asked them for anything so I don't know why they seem to avoid me.