first, try to forgive yourself and others
"fixing yourself"... or "being a better person"... I'd say it is working on your emotional issues so they do not effect relationships. Be it taking your damn meds or whatever... (joke)... seriously I think one can not have a strong connection if they do not love themselves.
:) I try
Time of self reflection,what's working for you and what not? Set in motion a plan to change what doesn't !
U got it!
I would have to know what's broke first.
Improving whatever I feel needs improvement on all levels.