I was never successfully married and happy, Oh, sure I married, I was lousy at it but just for a few years I traveled all over the United States and Europe, South America I did however learn some things about sincerely loving others ,caring about their welfare and interested in their hopes , dreams and aspirations, it's my job to support others with love and encouragement , with respect , and authenticity. , HOWEVER, this is who I aspire to be, not yet all that I am.
That some people are deserving of it and some aren't.
That with the right words, that someone can painfully yank all of the love right out of your heart forever!
to stay the hell away
People mistake love for what they get from it. What they need to do is love first self then others in this way you will not only have inner peace but, will be loved in return.
there's good and then there's spectacular! sometimes settling is all some people ever get-I'd rather have 1yr of fantastic than 10yrs of steady